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Is It Normal?
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age difference
I am fourteen years old. My boyfriend is ten years older than me, and we love eachother very much.

I feel that this is completely normal, but do you?
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Anonymous
Robing the Cradle
Nope, it's far from normal and downright creepy! Can we spell pedofile?!
Give me a P!
No it is not normal! What the hell does a 24 year old man want to hang out with a 14 year old for ?!! You are far too young for him and he could try and take advantage. If I were you I'd stay away from him and find a younger man, say 16 - 18. Come on, he's a paedophile! (not sure how you spell it)He knows fine well what he's doing and if you continue to go out with him one night you just might find yourself doing something you don't feel entirely comfortable with. There is plenty of time to date older men but for now just chill out and stay well away from that creep. What a sick bastard he must be!
Anonymous
@: Delgirl
this is normal.
Anonymous
totally not normal take it from me been there done that.Im 30 now an i was in the exact same situation at 14 an became pregant in the process..At 14 you are way to young to even know wat real love is u have so much time to grow up. when are are older u may ever look back an say what the fuck was i thinking.A 24 yr old man should know better he is just taking advantage of you.He should be in prison if he is having sex with you..my daugher is 15 an if i found out she was with a 24 yr old i would kick his ass an make sure he stayed away from my girl.He probly cant get anyone his own age so he goes with you cuz he knows its easy to take advantage of a kid... sign of a pedophile..
Anonymous
@: meme
he is not a pedophile, and he does not take advantage of me. we have never had sex and he has never tried to pressure me into it.

thank you for the advice though.
call the whambulance
@: Delgirl
What the hell does a 24 year old man want to hang out with a 14 year old for ?!!

Dont know but my guess is for sex and love
I am 22 years older than my wife and we are very happy, so I donīt think 10 years difference is a problem. He probably loves you because you are a sweet young girl that he can protect and care about. Some mothers always think that their daughters are underage all life and has to be protected against "bad" boys!

Just be careful with your love. You are a jailbait, so donīt let your boyfriend get into trouble.
Not normal
this is totally not normal. why is a 24 year old going out with a 14 year old? that is being a pedophile. You shouldnt date him anymore
Well Ill tell you one thing, he certainly isn't dating you because he finds 14 year old girls smart or funny (because they are neither)

PEADO
hes waaaaaaaaaaay too old for you.
Its totally normal, dont worry. just do wat u feel is right for u.
Attraction is normal among those with wide age differences but relationships should not take place with someone who is not of age of consent. Age of consent varies, state by state, a low of age 16 in some states to a high of age 18 in others. An adult who has anything to do with a minor is out of his mind and risks prosecution and imprisonment.

The link below has a chart revealing all the ages of consent by states and by countries. I suggest you find someone closer to your age and immediately break off all ties with this adult. To continue would be doing him as well as you a major disservice.



http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
My o my, i just looked over the age of consent chart and see that in the state of South Carolina it is age 14, must have been some recent revision. The rest of the states seem to be ages 16-18. Learn something new every day.
Perhaps if you went into this relationship 10 years from now. Although you 2 are in love, others will view it differently.

As long as you're happy and he doesn't hurt you, that's all that matters.
Please wait until you are sixteen or eighteen before making any decisions. Put the relationship on old until you are old enough and if you still feel the same then maybe it is love but dont rush into anything.
no its not normal, but it IS statutory rape...but that wasnt the question was it
If you love him: Stop seeing him because you are jail bait if he's having sex with you. I think he deserves to go to jail personally. He probally doesn't love you and do you really know what love is? No No No bad form on his part for takeing advantage of an inocent girl. Girl experience life get an education play hard to get. Your not a little girl no ,that's why you have to do the adult thing and choose yourself love yourself more than he does He's selfish and cruel for taking your youth Love at 14 No Please i'm a woman who thought she was in love at 16. Also an older man also he was too old to legally see me. I found out he only cared about hisself and he was seeing lots of young girls like me and we got married and he still cheated. Get an education it's so important Know the man you marry make sure you really like his family because their part of the package once a childs involved it's too late in most cases to not be a part of his life. God Bless.
I wanted to add something. If he still loves you when you turn 18: And then you'll know if it's love. Spend time with him for at least a year. Then decide. It could work. Yet ,it's your life and it's up to you.
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