Recently found out that my boyfriend is attracted to very young girls....like 13 or 14. He even admitted to me that he has had sexual thoughts about my 15 year old neice. He says all men would agree that this is normal....is he right?
Well, it is not pedophilia because pedophilia is when men are attracted to children who have not even entered puberty.
Most 13 year old girls have entered puberty so they are not children. It is legally not pedophilia. You can research this.
Some places in Japan have 13 as the legal sex age. Old men can sleep with 13 year old girls there. It is normal there and it happens all the time.
I am a 28 year old male and find a lot (but not all) 13 year old girls sexually desireable. It is illegal where I live to act on these desires so I would not do it. If i lived in a place where it was legal.... you bet I would do it and so would millions of men in the world. maybe billions.
It is nature... 100 to 200 years ago... the legal sex age in america was 12. This speeks something about human nature and sexual desires for the youthful. It is natural to feel these things.
It is against the law to act on these desires in most places so I advise your bf NOT to do it with a 13 year old. Tell him he can enroll in a work/exchange program in a Jananese town. There maybe he'll find the young woman he's looking for... the one of his dreams.
I too, like looking at young attractive girls. But I would never commit an act of child molestation unless it was definitely legal and consensual. The fact is, we (men) are hardwired to reproduce, and girls are VERY fertile, (The young 13-29). It is NATURAL to want to reproduce in a way that would almost guarantee continuation of your genes. It is sad that people think that because you have different sexual needs than most people you are evil or sick. I would hope you allow him his privacy and encourage him not to make himself a felon, as that would ruin any chance of his of being happy.
It IS normal for people to be attracted to 13 year olds. To have those feelings is very normal, but it doesn't change the facts of what would happen if he acted on those feelings. He'll just have to be satisfied with looking. jebodiah, krenn and XxINCHAINSxX all had good honest answers.
Its normal, since teen girls are very cute and sexy. Schoolgirl and lolita fetish are some of the most common in the world.
What you should do is get some props and play "sexy schoolgirl", "naughty babysitter", etc with him and if you can play some of these scenarios, it will be a really hot time and it will be a way to channel that energy back in your relationship.
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Most 13 year old girls have entered puberty so they are not children. It is legally not pedophilia. You can research this.
Some places in Japan have 13 as the legal sex age. Old men can sleep with 13 year old girls there. It is normal there and it happens all the time.
I am a 28 year old male and find a lot (but not all) 13 year old girls sexually desireable. It is illegal where I live to act on these desires so I would not do it. If i lived in a place where it was legal.... you bet I would do it and so would millions of men in the world. maybe billions.
It is nature... 100 to 200 years ago... the legal sex age in america was 12. This speeks something about human nature and sexual desires for the youthful. It is natural to feel these things.
It is against the law to act on these desires in most places so I advise your bf NOT to do it with a 13 year old. Tell him he can enroll in a work/exchange program in a Jananese town. There maybe he'll find the young woman he's looking for... the one of his dreams.
I can't help those fantasies either.
What you should do is get some props and play "sexy schoolgirl", "naughty babysitter", etc with him and if you can play some of these scenarios, it will be a really hot time and it will be a way to channel that energy back in your relationship.