Why is it bad?
Why is it so bad for a girl to like sex? Why is she labeled a slut if she likes masturbating? I am 16. I like masturbating. Why is it so bad? GUYS do it! And it is considered normal! It really makes me mad. OH and why is it if a guy gets laid that he is a "pimp''. And if a girl has sex she is a slut? It makes no sense to me. Are girls not allowed to enjoy sex or something?
Although I have to say, anyone who sleeps with a shitload of people is a whore, male or female. There's a difference between liking sex and putting out for anyone who wants it.
This could be because guys generally want to have as much sex as possible with as many partners as possible. Therefore when a man succeeds in his desires all other men will praise and envy him.
That doesn't make it right, and it doesn't make the guy any less of a shmuck.
Meanwhile woman have the distinct disadvantage of being the child bearing partner. Meaning they (biologically) need stability and commitment in a sexual relationship.
Sorry, but it seems biology is conspiring against female sexual abandon.
p.s. Actually I am not sorry at all.
man and woman having sex is actually a contract about splicing their genes together and create an offspring.
Thing is, the woman must invest more in the baby than the man.
So itīs a contract more profitable to the man than the woman. Which is why men always pay for sex.
And a woman giving it away for nothing is being stupid.
And a man getting a lot of it for nothing is getting good deals.
Perceptionally-wise that is.
Just ignore those fucks. Your not a slut.
I hope you're aren't Christian. If you are Christian, I suggest that you reevaluate your definition of love. There isn't too much wrong with masturbating when you're sixteen, though.
And in Victorian times, yes, women were expected to actually hate sex but endure it only to please their husbands. Personally I couldn't stand being with a woman who didn't like sex.
Besides, who are the ones today calling women sluts? Other women! Jealosy, I call it.
In the words of the marque De Sade;
"My way of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care?"
(I actually typed that quote on a lable maker and put it on the side of my computer)