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Younger girl likeing older man
I met this guy on yahoo messenger. We have exchanged pics and I think he is very hot for being 40 years old. I am 16. I know this is not normal but I like him so much anyways. Our conversation is so passionate and I want him so bad. We chat using mic so it is just like talking on the phone. I think about being with him in public and the thought of that really turns me on. (I think of making out with him in public) Why do we desire each other so much if it is not normal?
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Ick . . .
He's old enough to be your dad!
There IS something alluring about an older man... but still, I wouldn't, at least not yet. If you two meet and matters progress, he could get done for statutory rape even if you give him your consent. Wait a couple of years and see how you feel then.

Personally, I wouldn't be entirely sure about any man in his 40's who seduces teenage girls online.
@: Moi
Really?
Yes I know this man is old enough to be my dad but he is one hella fine dad then!
Honey, he desires you because you're young, pretty, and he hopes easy tight sex! You desire him because you're young and inexperienced and want to be taught! This guy is a pedophile and I'd stay FAR away if I were you.
Yea SO?
Why should I stay far away? I want to have sex with him. (even tho it is not possible with the distance). Tell me why exactly I should stay far away?
No matter wat people tell u to do, ur gonna do wat u want anyway. So live and learn kiddo.
no reason for you to not have sex with him then.
have him fuck your brains out, it will be fun.

Itīs a really good thing that women tend to like older men... especially for older men.
Older men are REALLY sexy
Pay no attention to the dumbass who said "ick", she's obviously immature.

I've always loved older men... even now, and I'm 30. Anything under about 35 gets flat-out rejected. LOL

It's not at all unusual or abnormal to be attracted to a guy who is "old enough to be your dad". In fact, that is part of the appeal. Think about how hot it would be to get a spanking from him.

Anyhow, my first time was when I was 15, and it was with a 36 year old guy, and I wasn't massively disturbed or traumatized, like some prudes may suggest. I say, if he seems like a nice guy, and you're attracted to him... go for it.

Trust me, it will be far more memorable than fiddling around with some zit-faced teeny-bopper boy who doesn't know what he's doing. There's no substitute for a REAL man.
Younger girl likeing older man
I personaly enjoy the company of a younger girl as long as she is mature enough to make important choices on her own. Its not always about sex. To me its whats in the brain and heart. Thats the key and I stick to it and think with my brain, not my penis.
Oh hell yea! lol ur so cool!
This is very normal. You are probably way to smart on an emotions and intellectual level for most guys your own age. You are just excited to finally find a guy you can relate to. He is on your level. The only down fall is the law says this is not right. Even though I’m willing to bet you are much smarter and more mature than most 18 year olds that is legal to have sex with. I say fuck what people think and do what makes you happy as long as you are safe and are sure you are not going to get him in trouble.
@: DBDBDB
Okay thanks...that is a really cool statement for you to make and it sounds like you pretty much know me lol. Thanks!
normal? yes.
legal? no.
wait two years to keep him safe and out of jail.
You like him because he either has money and you are shallow, or he resembles your dad and you have a few issues to work out. Have you ever seen a 40 year old man naked? Enjoy youth while you can.
@: parids
lol no we have never actually talked about money. I only want to have sex with him. I couldn't ever be his girlfriend or anything to where the money could come in handy anyways so what would me wanting him for money have to do with anything? And about the resembling my dad thing that is just sick. He is very attractive actually specailly for someone who is 40. And yea actually I have seen him on his webcam and he's not too bad.
If you do go for it, do your best to keep it a secret and don't go psycho on him. He can get in huge trouble if it comes out and you could ruin his life (if you don't seem to mind adding baggage to your own).

Have him fuck your brains out and then blackmail him for $50.000.
That way you can get a bunch of adult fucking AND a shitload of money.
You might even get a lot of pitty too, being sexually "abused" and all.

Why cant i meet girls like you ?
@: parids
Parids is an idiot, and more than likely some jealous 15 year old boy.

40ish guys look fantastic, naked.. BTW. : )
Hey if it doesnt work out with him, "Whats Good ?"
Check out the below link on the age of consent chart and what age is legal in your state/country.

If it is illegal meaning you're not of legal age to consent to sex, i suggest you cut him off immediately. It isn't worth criminal prosecution and jail time. And, hiding it would be difficult. If you're of legal age, your choice.



http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
It's very common for people to like somebody older, but if said older person isn't careful they can damage you emotionally, possibly for the rest of your life. I've seen it happen before, and I fear it's all too common.
My advice? Be careful, but if you really want to and trust him a lot, then I would say go for it, when the law permits. Sex crimes can really screw up somebody's life.
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