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29-no relationship

hi...im nearly 29 and have never had sex or a relationship.i am male.i am increasingly beginningto realise that i will never do either.im told i am good looking and i have a pretty good job and money,i just dont seem to meet people,even at work,i just never get talking to girls at all.And when i do they are never single,like everytime.
I am very nervous and find it almost impossible to speak to them.i feel like i am totally invisible to them.
Will i be on my own forever?because it certainly feels like it at this point.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (23)
Here is mi advice brothuh, CHURCH!
better hurry my friend.that testosterone will start running low very soon and youll end up without ever getting any.
You will find somebody if its what you really want i recommend an online dating service like E Harmony.com i have a couple of friends who have hooked up with girls this way and one of them just married the girl he met.

Oh and dont worry about Slack's comment on testosterone level I'm 40 and still get it on like a twenty year old. Just dont wait to long to make children or you will be an old man when they reach adulthood.
My 2 cents; dating and marriage is not very smart or cost effective for today's man. Nor is having children. They are cute, but they grow "big" and they are all out of pocket cost. Clothing, college, doctors, headaches and don't forget if you get married and it doesn't work out; now you're talking endless child support, alimony, court cost etc. not to mention the cost losing of your home and everything you worked hard for. My suggestion is be happy you are single and don't leave yourself open to domestic life. Again it is not cost effective nor very smart. Don't fall in the traps of society. Find an escort or a good dvd. Not a bad price, no jumping through hoops, no commitments, children, child support or court dates not to mention the average $4000 plus you would spend on a ring and the rest of wedding costs. Be smart.
@: tinkius
I agree with tinkius, up until the escort/porn part. Some day you'll be glad you stayed single.
Marriage is just legalised prostitution! You pay for the rest of your life where as with a prostitute you pay once mate. Just make sure you use a condom.
For women getting married is very lucrative. They have a few children, live with you for 2 to 5 years. Then start denying you sex/ ethical treatment etc. and wait for you to go outside the marriage etc. then file for divorce with alimony/child support citing irreconcilable differences and adultry; get the settlement and keep the $4000 ring. Then they live good off your earnings by themselves for the rest of their lives or with some other guy in the house "you" paid for; with "your" children! While you work three jobs and end up in a crummy apartment in a bad neighborhood. And no this did not happen to me, but it has to alot of guys.

Consider yourself lucky and hold your head high. Stay single, it's much smarter.
look it up cornpone ,testosterone levels start dropping in the 30's.


Stop telling us about how you can still whack off like a 20 year old.no one wants to hear about you hand jobbing yourself.
Shut up pencil dick I've had more pussy then you had meals fatso. Just because sex drive {life) is non existent to harp on me wanker boy!!
your
funny you should call me fatso when your own new years resolution is to lose weight.and drink less beer......yeah you sound like youre getting lots O pussy over there in I-DEE-HO.


Aint that the way you conepone rednecks say it,I-DEE-HO?


Come on you beer gutted fatso tell all us losers about some of that tremendous amount of PUSSY you be gettin'! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
well maby if u moved out of ur parents basement and stopped playing world of warcraft you would have time to go out and meet girls
beach,DISCOTECH,or join sum clubs
"I-DEE-HO" Its funny i have never heard of that saying until it came out of your keyboard. Maybe your the redneck,HUMMM yea i think so.
What is it with you and this "us" "we" bullshit I'm talking to YOU fuckhead. I get my fair share of pussy and then some,I"m not the one on here calling everybody a virgin you desperate fuck wit.

Your lucky you dont live close to me because i would come look you up and smash your skull with my large fist. Then i would skull fuck you with my big dick. Now do "us" a favor and go whack your pencil dick.
"conepone" What the fuck is that your imaginary girlfriend? How often to you stick her up your nasty shit hole?
Well theres some sad lonely fucks here isnt there maybe the rest of should be glad your not going to breed
No we pronounce it Idaho only faggot ass out of state rednecks say that shit apparently.
When i get married,if I ever do,I won't be the one who denies sex,I haven't had sex in quite awhile,and I miss it,and yearn for it every single day,but have found the means to control myself. I,personally don't date,I become too emotionally attached,and I'd rather avoid being used,and thrown away like trash. I mean now guys don't even ask you out,they just talk about how "hott" they think you are (girls are mostly whores too). This guy isn't missing out on much.

Back to the whole marriage and kids thing,and it ruining people's lives. I think most woman and sometimes men act like that,because they are unhappy,obviously. People are so unsatisfied with everything now,and people change all to frequently. The only thing people are interested in is a new fetish in their sex life,or the latest electronics. I feel sorry for our children,they will be the ones who pay for our immorality,and inability to conform with each other,and they wont abide by the law,you know like our parents did.

-dirt dobbler
isnt any1 gonna ask me what a discotech is?
Just come out of the closet already, Find yourself a nice guy, and live happily ever after. JeeZzz do you wanna be the 40yr old VIRGIN? ahh
@: tinkius
Wow. I wonder what planet YOUR marriage was on?

I came out of my marriage experience in ANYTHING but a "lucrative" condition. For one thing, we still share custody of the kids and their expenses. I did receive alimony but it was temporary, and it was very much needed as my ex makes more than twice my income and also has better benefits. That "$4,000 diamond ring" you mentioned was actually a $1,000 ring that turned out to have such a flawed stone that I was only able to sell for $60 after the divorce. (And by the way, I NEVER denied my husband anything in "that" area.)

Divorce hurts BOTH parties. It sounds like you got a raw deal, which is unfortunate, but divorce pretty much ruined me financially, while my ex's much higher salary at least protected him from bankruptcy, which is what happened to me.

To the poster, it doesn't necessarily have to be like this, but I'd certainly proceed with caution. When you're alone, it may seem that everyone you know has a partner and is blissfully happy. But revisit the same folks a few months or years down the road, and it's entirely likely that you'll see a picture like the one described by me or tinkius. It really DOES warrant some consideration.
@: JanIAm
Thankyou for your reply.very helpfull.
@: tinkius
Thanks for your mature helpfull comments.
I dont feel so shit now!
Rock on the single life!
DUDE....!!!!!!!! TIME IS FLYING!!!!! FIND YOURSELF A B****!!!!! QUICK!!