You are not a lost cause so don't dare give up hope! You seem to have poor self-esteem and probably have put up such an emotional wall around yourself for whatever reason and you are projecting that to other people. You may be telling yourself that you are unworthy of being loved, causing you to subconsciously close yourself off from others. Whatever the case, you have to be the one to make the first step. You need to talk to a professional, either by phone or in person.

Remember you are worthy, you have a purpose and every right to be on this earth, you deserve to love and be loved.

weed is a good friend

why don't you take classes in someting to meet people, or join a club. you could even do volunteer work to meet others. just remember to be warm and keep a positive attitude. :)

i know exactly how you feel but im 14 so i have a slight amount more of hope.

Try more to accomplish what you want, if you don't go out no-one is going to come knocking at your door step to be your lover or friend, when I was in 6th grade I had 1 friend and I was a absolute loser I felt, 8 years later I have about 15 close friends and more friends, aquaintances, and multiple relationships, one day I woke up tired of the way everything was and I changed it all

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its ok dont give up. God is a great friend to talk to and hes always there. Keep at it things will improve.

Don't worry, it will change eventually. I was in a similar situation a few years ago. When I was 16 to 18 I had no friends and noone to talk to and go out with. I did make some attempts to find friends. Lots of attempts, actually. It didn't work out, I was like hitting against the solid wall again and again. I was loosing hope and getting really depressed. However, like someone already mentioned here, it is only up to YOU to make the first step. So I kept trying.
Everything changed, when I finished the school. Now I have a lot of very good and close friends, the number of them is constantly growing. The point was, that I was trying to get along with the wrong people. The other point is that once you find some freinds, you get this "snow ball effect", meaning you get more and more acquantancies and friends.

Don't worry, things will get better. I'm 17 and only have 2 or 3 close friends, but I am happy that someone out there cares about me. You have to find friends, they aren't gonna come looking for you. There's an old saying that goes "In order to have friends, you have to be a friend" You have to just put yourself out there in the world. Give it a try. Go out places and introduce yourself. I'm sure there is someone out there who really cares about you. Maybe you have yet to found those people...but keep trying. I'm sure they are out there somewhere :)

stop being so damn shy.

theres one guy hu said weed is a good friend hes right its funny but weed is a good past-time
i no how you feel no1 ringing or knocking on to see you its a bastard im not sayin smoke weed but thats what it is an was for me everything has changed now i want to move a live a new life but i cant school is keeping me back

Narrator: Being the asshole he was, he refused to give a coherent comment by reading the others first and went straight away to say

Me: Give up hope, bitch, cause no one likes u

I feel the same way sometimes.

It sounds like you might have an emotional barrier to overcome so that you can connect more with others and have more fulfilling relationships. A hard thing to do in an increasingly callous society.

Yes, once you get yourself stuck in a rut its very hard to get out of it, its easy for others to say go out and meet people but when you have been socially isolated for so long its hard. Try to take things a step at a time, tell yourself to do one thing a day, go for a walk, then try going to gym, or go swimming, then build yourself up gradually, then when you are feeling more confident join a class or club, dont rush anything because you will feel out of your depth if you get involved with loads of people straight away after being alone for so long, so take it easy and things will work out..