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Turning on strangers, and others I can't have
I have a huge thing about turning on strangers, and people that I can't have (married men, etc.). When anyone has some kind of positive reaction to something sexy that I'm doing, or I catch them looking at me, it gives me the best feeling in the world. I never pursue these people, I've had a boyfriend for 3 years and I've never cheated on him, and never would. Though the biggest fantasy I have is turning on someone who I can't have, or who I'm not "supposed" to have. Just knowing that they're thinking about having sex with me is a huge turn on! Is this normal?
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Comments (13)
Anonymous
When you do all this serious flirting, you are pretty much cheating on him. The line is very thin!

You've got to either control yourself, or try to spice things up with your boyfriend--maybe arrange to both be in the same place at the same time, and flirt with him as if you don't know him (with cool disguises maybe?).
Anonymous
To be honest, I've really never done any kind of "serious" flirting. I'm talking about when someone has a positive reaction to clothes I'm wearing (which my boyfriend knows I'm wearing), or when they say I'm gorgeous or beautiful, they want to be with me, you're sexy, etc. I've never said anything back or touched them in a flirty way, etc. I'm very in control of myself and would never do anything I know my boyfriend would dislike. I always let them know that I have a boyfriend. The only ways I try to get any kind of attention are very subtle, which the other person doesn't know I'm doing on purpose.
Anonymous
I say normal!
I have been in a serious relationship for 2 & 1/2 yrs and sometimes I feel the same way. Thank God I'm not the only one! I think it's because after you've been in a relationship for awhile things get kind of routine and boring. You get really comfortable and don't have to impress each other anymore. So when strangers notice you it makes you feel hot and sexy. I don't think it's bad unless you act on it. It's a nice self-esteem boost.
Anonymous
yuuuuuup
I'm 20 and I get SUCH a thrill from giving flirtacious or seductive vibes to guys that are just standing around, often they're much older... I'd never actually go through with it, but it is really a turn-on to turn on random people
Anonymous
SL UT!
YOU
YOU ALL SHOULD TALK TO YOUR YOUTH PASTOR! HE CAN KEEP YOU FROM BURNING IN ETERNAL HELL. WOMEN WERE NOT RIPPED FROM THE GUTS OF MAN FOR NUTTIN. PLEASE SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOUR DAD. JESIS IS THE RASIN.
@: Methos
I think the correct terminology is "dick tease".
Anonymous
Sounds to me like you are a nasty attention whore. You just like attention. You're going to end up getting raped you nasty slut.
Anonymous
My girlfriend is a serious flirt too and it can make me feel like shit. So think about that the next time you're out flirting it up with strange men.
My advice? Spend more time turning your man on with new sex expiriences and outfits.
Sure is, means you feel your attractive to people who have no attachment that forces them to think so. Pretty normal, just don't be a fool and think it'll get you anywhere.
i didnt know methos still existed
oh nevermind that comment was back in 05
man you guys are retarded.she is not a whore there is nothing wrong with that.as long as she's not cheating on her boyfriend it's ok.you think her boyfriend doesn't eye rape atleast 4 or 5 girls per day when he's not around his g/f?? it's a fucking double standard i hate that.
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