Friends i hate
I had a group of friends when i came to college that i made that i always just absolutely hated. i would occasionally try to convince myself there were qualities to their characters that i liked or that they were nice to me most of the time. the truth is i always viewed them as being way too materialistic, racist and judgmental. They werent ever nice to me and i would hardly ever get asked to do things with them (it was a large group, but i never got asked with ne of them really) so i would go over and always hear about stuff they did, and that i never got invited to. the only thing i had in common with them was that i liked to drink and do drugs. however whenever id be asked to do something with them i wouldnt even want to and would just make excuses not to. i decided i wanted to stop drinking and doing drugs all the time and they all gave me weird looks and asked me why i would want to do such a thing. they never said they were joking either, nor did it look like they were either. however we still hung out with each other occasionally. i hung out with them for about 2 years though. even after i stopped hanging with them and made it obvious this one guy would call me every weekend to see what i was doing. i seriously dont understand that. i finally went out with them once, and the night i did his girlfriend and him got called for a domestic violence conflict. any suggestions on what is going on? also has something similar to this happened to anyone else?
You know that asian nerd that gave you notes whenever you asked and NEVER complained when you didn't give them back? Be friends with him.
You know that person that told you doing drugs and smoking were bad? Be friends with them.
You know that person that was always quiet but whenever you talked to them they were friendly and smiled? Be friends with them.
People have an obsession with being popular. The cool druggies that go out all the time instead of attending lectures are just so fucking awesome . Time to start looking INSIDE a person BEFORE you make a commitment and regret the friendship.
It was your experience that made you realize they were shit friends. You've grown and matured and they seem to be stuck in an adolescent fishtank. Nuture your newfound maturity and do something productive, like sign up for clubs you find interesting and make friends there. Do something worthwhile and fun for you. I commend you on quitting the garbage you used to do. Treat yourself properly and do well in the rest of your studies!
What a mother I sound like... I'm 18.
do you feel the same about those people? if not, they're not worth your time and i suggest you find some new friends that actually give a shit about you.
dont even talk to em