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paranoia

Its been 9 months since we have broken up and besides the fact that i still am not over him completely, I find that i am really paranoid about him and my really good friend. They arent good friends with each other but he is a flirt and though she says she is one of the only people that doesnt like him i know that she enjoys it, which is somewhat understandable, but i am paranoid that they might some how get together and i know this would hurt me deeply. people tell me that i shouldnt care because he is after all an ex but i cant help how i feel. i know im a jealous person in this way.

my question is: is it normal for me to be paranoid and feel this way about him even after all this time?
Do you think it's normal?
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Anonymous
2005-06-26 07:26:43
Unfortunately, it is all too normal. People are obsessive, particularly jealous females. So do yourself a favor and try to get over him and allow him to live his own life. After all, it's not all that comfortable knowing there is someone looking over your shoulder in some private affair even though it is none of their business anymore.
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joewithajay (717)
2005-08-09 09:23:12
...STACEY??!!
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