16? baby? http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/ Strong desire to bear a child is completely normal and healthy, part of evolution even as young as pre-teen years for girls. But, the financial demands, responsibility in raising a child are even too much for adults who are well prepared too in many cases. The cost is staggering in raising a child and very few young people have any idea what it costs and entails. The desire to have a child is fine, as are many desires, but do not try to make this happen until you are fully ready and have met the right person who has proven to be responsible. I would say early 20s of age would be the earliest to even consider bring a child into the world and that is the earliest. Raising a child alone, without a spouse is extremely difficult and you would be doing a grave disservice to a child, others, be extremely selfish in doing so, before the child has two parents who are capable, loving and eager to raise it. Unfortunately, this is not the norm today, but explains why so many kids are raised in families that are so dysfunctional. Please follow my adice. My post will likely irritate a lot who were brought up in the situation I describe but the facts are honest, clear cut. http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-38327 2006-10-20 00:57:42 havent you ever seen maury and the kids tryning to take care of kids' they fail miserably, and yes, parents do yell at theuir kids, but the main reason is that they disobeyed the parents and did something bad. the other reasons are theyre bad kids and theyre bad parents. dont turn into them http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-32649 2006-09-12 22:11:56 Look you've probably got a lovely tight little hole right and babies have such fucking big heads, why would you want to stretch your hole out of existence'....... the next poor bloke who comes along will have to tie a plank to his back to stop himself falling in........ http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-30444 2006-08-31 17:45:54 no thats no normal. You stupid stupid whore. You have no idea how tuff it is to raise a child http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-30256 2006-08-30 21:46:34 It not safe. You think it ok, that because u dont understtand enough. Ur too young to having baby! http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-29372 2006-08-27 18:26:46 i am 15 and my friend and i have talked about having children and being young moms (we are both females and str8) we rarely disgussed at the same time who the father would be ect. but we both want children but not so bad that we would have them as bout our parents would kill us and the fathers lmao http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-28923 2006-08-25 11:22:01 *it will be hard to cope with (soz i made a spelling error) http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-28687 2006-08-23 08:39:07 heya. its normal , but i will e hard to cope with lol. my m8 is 14 and shes gotta a baby , she found it hard but now shes doing great.well to me its normal! http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-28686 2006-08-23 08:38:24 wait until ur 18. then adopt. there are many kids out there that need a home!! http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-28473 2006-08-21 12:52:44 I have a question to u and i'd appreciate if u answered it. Why do u want a child right now ' answer that and then i'll have more input. http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-25913 2006-08-05 17:45:47 I know that you know SOMEONE was going to say it, and since nobody besides me HAS said it, i guess I have to. ITS NOT AS EASY AS YOU THINK. have you ever been around kids' im guessing you are an only child, or your siblings are all older than you. they are MONSTERS! http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-25786 2006-08-04 10:16:11 yea kids are great, but you should have kids when your ready and for the right reasons, you should want to have kids to build a family with the one you love. http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-25564 2006-08-02 22:21:17 whats ur number ill give you a baby... http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-22016 2006-07-01 14:17:46 listen alot of people think about this ta your age but it is soo rough to be a young single mother...You have so much time to do this and still so much to you should do before having a kid...Be young have fun take advantage of what life has to offer, someday you'll be a wonderful mom! http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-21651 2006-06-26 22:00:14 Having a baby at 16 is CRAZY! For now, get a job babysitting, or working at a nursery school. And enjoy being a teenager, you only get one chance at that! http://isitnormal.com/story/3218/#comment-21640 2006-06-26 19:01:26