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i have a problemm

i am under the age of 18 and female and a few weeks ago my mother saw a hicky that was on my neck, i didnt tell her who gave it to me and recently she saw one near my chest (on my upper chest) anyways she thinks that i am having orgies or somthing weird like that, also that i might be experimenting with ladies, i am not, the only reason she thinks this is because i will not tell her where the hickies are comming from and the only reason i cannot tell my mother about where they are comming from is because the guy is a few years older than myself and do not under any sercomstances want to get him in any trouble! im not sure what i should do, waiting till i am 18 is not an option!
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Comments (9)
Anonymous
nothing u can do. im sniffing my dirty under wear. it has a warm heeping pile of shit in it. just like this story
Anonymous
dirty... sniffle.. i have hickies on my
Fess up to your mom, anything else is a lie, and will only make matters worse when she finds out the truth.
Anonymous (Story Author)
the first two comments
F*CK OFF! moi, i understand and i really would have no problem telling her the truth, but i dont know if she would be okay with it and if shes not there is a slight chance that he could go to jail. and i really do not want that to happen!
I think you should fess up to your mother because she is like one of you best friends and no one understands you more then your parents do. and they are always there for you.
Anonymous (Story Author)
my mother is nothing like my best friend, she doesnt understand me at all and i am not just saying that either she even told me so herself!!!
Options.
First, waiting until your 18 is an option, you have simply chosen not to take it. Second, getting hickies is also an option. You might find it a little easier to avoid getting hickies rather than waiting until your 18. If you truely believe you dont have options here seek help. Unfortunately it does not soud like your mother would be a good person to turn to.
Being honest with parents is hard dont get me rong but having the kinda relationship where you feel you can freely talk to them is well worth it, if your embarised why dont you ask him not to give you love bites in visible places ?
Tell your mother that your relationships are your buisness alone, and that if she REALLY wants to know, that the most you will tell her is the truth: You are seeing a guy, and havn't had sex.

Thats all she needs to know