should he worry?

it's fine, he can worry about u all he wants, cuz worrying is a sign of caring and loving :)

but, if he has a problem with u being gothic, then explain gothic to him....explain how u don't slit etc...even throw in this little bonus fact..

DID YOU KNOW? people who are not gothic are more likely to be depressed and commit suicide/slit!

but don't tell him u got that fact frm me!

i knew him for my whole life. but this year goth has tooken over my life and is running it. before i said yes to be w/him i told him that im gothic but at first he really didnt like the fact bout that but then he asked me if i ever will cut my self/kill my self and i told him no. but ever since i showed him some of my poetry that show all of my feelings hes been thinkin that i will.
i do know that goths r more likely to commit suicide and hurt their self but i already told him and promised him that im not that kind of person but i have once tryed it...
thanks for the help.

excuse my bad speaaling...

Its OK to be Gothic. Its OK for your boyfrie to worry about it. It sound like you got a great boyfreind, dont let he get away.

It is okay to write your feelings out as long as you don't ac them out. YOur boyfreind is just worried because he should be. Everyones head perks up when they hear the words self mutilation and suicide. Being gothic has nothing to do with it and you didn't even need to mention that fact. Just embrace your new culture and deal accordingly. But one thing that sorta freak me is you are 12 and have a b/f. Sorta young but who am I to say anything.

I hate girls like you. Who pretend to be gothic and write peotry about feeling they dont even have.
Dont write about cutting or do fake scratches on your arm with tacks and stuff unless you are willing to really feel the pain. BITCH.

^^I'm not a fake u idiot get ur facts straight

I happen to know for a fact that cutiepie is really goth..^here is her picture to prove it

U mean that's ur picture

aye, it is my picture. it's my picture of you
stay in school cutiepie

Dude I plain on staying in school. But anyways that picture looks like ur mother!! Opps... I mean it looks like you. I didn't mean the part bout your mother its just to hard to tell the difference between the both of you.

I was fishing for a good comeback, but it appears that your lake is dry...

Dude your getting wack now. Hey, I have an idea, why don't u get alife and use it for a change! instead of fighting w/a 12 yr old. Since well how old r u? If your older then 12 maybe you should take my advice [get a life and use it for a change.] Since it kinda disapointing that a 12 yr. Old alredy has a life and you don't.

Well that's my advice 2 u. Think bout it and I hope u deside 2 use it. =]

I didn't realize we were fighting.. I thought we were just playfully cyber teasing. I'm sorry... do you have msn?

I have internet explorer but its mest up... So I'm on a sidekick2.

Goths Are highly steryotyped as people who cut themselves and think about suicide. Not all goths are like that.(well...most of them anyways.) i am also twelve, but not goth. I'm punk/emo.But I have many goth friends.

Goths Are highly steryotyped as people who cut themselves and think about suicide. Not all goths are like that.(well...most of them anyways.) i am also twelve, but not goth. I'm punk/emo.But I have many goth friends.

You are most likely an idiot. He is also an idiot for getting involved with you. Wipe off your makeup, wear some color, and stop being fake for attention!

Its really sweet that he worries about you. Maybe you should stop writing so much about hurting yourself and definately about hurting other people.

its normal human nature for people to worry about those they care about. that just means he cares for you alot.

I myself am worried, you claim to be "gothic" but you're 12. Tell me, what's the worst thing that has ever happened to you?

Ah that's so cute. You are like 12 and you think you belong to something. You arn't gothic. It's cute that you think you are though. I would say to you, that you need to see the real world and mature before saying what you actually are.

goth? ive seen more goth in a fruit smoothy. why are u writing poems if they mean nothing to you? because youre a poser. and an attention seeker. grow up dear

aw shit i was gonna say kill urself but then i read the last line :(