It's your personal sex life, so why would you even mention this to your family?!

Anywho . . . If it makes both of you happy, it really shouldn't matter what your friends and relatives think.

yes I wouldn't tell you family. I'd say it's a private matter and I think you're a very lucky man. Wanting to watch your wife with other men is a very common fantasy and you're lucky that your wife is keen to please you by tucking in.

There's at least another recent post on this same topic. It is completely normal but best kept private since society hasn't yet fully accepted this lifestyle. Swingers participate in exactly what you enjoy and have grown in popularity in recent years. There are many clubs worldwide that engage in such swapping/sharing with other couples. Do a google search and numerous clubs will pop up. It isn't as unusual as it used to be.

Totally normal activity. Carry on as long as you both agree to it. Does she suck a good cock with you watching also?

By the way, I am well hung and very sexual, and would like to please your wife while you watch. Where do you live?

Yeah, I didnt think I would enjoy watching my wife have sex with someone else til I actually watched by accident,well it wasnt all the way sex but kind of,it was after a party at a hotel my wife had a little to much to drink and so did I,we had a room at this hotel and I asked one of the bus boys to help me take her to our room I should of known better since he was pretty young and I saw him checking her out,so we got to our room and we laid her on one bed and I laid down on the other one I thanked the guy and he asked to turn off the lights before he left I was so drunk Ijust said fine go ahead and I dozed off for about five min I kind of woke up and saw this guy feeling her out I just layed there watching and getting very turned on I watched as he raised her dress sniffed her out I didnt know what to do,Iwas enjoying this alot the further he went the more I got exited after he pulled down her panties and started giving her oral and saw my wife enjoy this with a passion that she had an orgasm,I thought he was going to penatrate her but he looked over at me and probably thought I was going to wake up and decided to leave so after he left I finished the job wow was she wet,thats when I knew that I enjoyed watching my wife have sex with other men ....

This is quite normal in my book...my husband enjoys watching me and my lovers havinf sex, or hearing about a "date" if he is not there.

the reason you enjoy other men with your wife is youre gay.no other reason a man would take so much pleasure from seeing his wife get dicked.

you are a very lucky man to have a wife who lets you watch her with other men .there are hundreds of men who envy you i wish my wife would. do it with another man so i could watch yours roger

How can I get in touch with you I think I can fix you up.

When I was fifteen I had a boyfriend who SAID that he would like to see me with other guys.

Like a fool (And I was) I went along. First one guy, then (on different occations) another, another and then two at once while he watched.

Went on for about six months, THEN I got hold of his cell phone one day and read a few texts. Turns out the bastard was pimping me out!

That ended that.

Tobra - STILL PISSED!

It could be that you love your wife so much you like to see her pleased.

If she doesn't do it in a malicious way and both have a clear understanding you can find enjoyment out of her pleaser. So the more shes enjoying it the more you are.

Plus you get that third person view of your wifes body having sex.

I would like to watch my wife. She is very good, most exquisite in fact, and she gives fantastic head. I apologize but we are not allowed to use the kind of language that could adequately describe her masterful oral talents. I have already seen in action with a dildo with a suction cup, do I already know that she would be smashing to watch; dazzling, absolutely dazzling! Unfortunately the simple truth is that I simply cannot include myself in her relationships with others. You see we are followers on the path of the Goddess, and when Tique becomes Freya incarnate she can and does have sex with whomever she pleases, whenever she pleases, wherever she pleases. When Tique is Freya incarnate she has the first word, the last word and all words in between. She has the one and only say about where she goes who she takes with her and whom or what she does when she gets there.
I suppose for anyone who isn't familiar with what I'm talking about this would all sound most peculiar and possibly rather ridiculous and comical. I can already shouts of outrage from the men, but I assure you what Tique is doing is a MOST SELFLESS ACT. As High Priestess to Freya she is the only one who can command our efforts to raise and then craft the tremendous and unseen energy and then with absolute and perfect surrender expresses it and me through herself to Freya Thus she completes the first half circle of our and the earth's relationship with Freya. Next she places herself on Freya's altar in sacrifice and surrenders herself completely to Freya, completing the circle of our relationships, the stands to walk the Earth as FREYA INCARNATE. From that point on she is Freya's vessel and Freya's altar. It is upon that altar that she commands the sex that will deliver unto Freya the most divine and precious gift; Her own orgasm. She is the only one who can do it. I can't and doubt anyone else can do it with such adeptness. This is where Tique demonstrates her greatest asset and most precious quality, Herself. There are many Priestesses who invoke the Goddess, but none who do it in this way, and there are none on this Earth who become truly and completely the GODDESS INCARNATE. She alone It's quite awe-inspiring. I've known priestesses who've been in the craft for over 30 years. I've met Selena Fox. But I have never known anyone who's had such sheer natural ability and such perfect Grace.
So Mote It Be!

Hey man,

Don't sweat it. I'm a bi man in a very loving relationship with my lady who I've been with for three years. Catch is. you see that bi part? We lost our 3-some v-card over a year ago, and I found LOVE watching her. Sometimes this is helped by the male also being bi-sexual but our most regular "extra" partner is straight as a rod (to all you homophobes out there don't worry gay isn't contagious and i can play with her around straight guys and not uncontrollably attack him) and I love him being a part of our experience.

My biggest tip as you get more and more comfy with this idea is keep an open line of communication, don't be afraid to set boundries, and do some research you are far from alone.

There have been a couple j*ckbut comments/replies to this (i.e. calling you gay, etc.) ignore these. I believe it just shows your devotion to your wife's pleasure.

I mean obviously I'm a layman and no shrink but I know from my experience that, while not for everyone, it's a wonderful thing. Many people also seem to think that a 3-sum etc. is a reflection on the status of the relationship (i.e. one partner isn't doing their job). But this is ridiculous. Many of us men (as I'm sure the OP does) finds their partner's pleasure extremely erotic and fulfilling. Your are not only enjoying yourself but by keeping an open-mind you are being generous and loving through this, albeit naughty, and I wish you both the best of luck.

- To infinity and beyond