1. Read 2. Vote 3. Repeat
Is It Normal?
What do you think?
What's wrong with the men women meet these days??
I'm a female who met this guy in college back in April,'06. He was sweet, charming ,handsome,generous,kind, and a good kisser.
Unfortunately, we only dated for a total of three months because one night when we went out to dinner, he told me that he wanted to be "honest with me". He told me that :
6.He had met another girl right after he met me, but CLAIMED that he never went out with her or slept w/her.
5. In the past, he had a history of being involved in child abuse and domestic violence.
4.He had went to prison for five years on both charges.
3.He claims that he did'nt remember how he ended up abusing his child, and that he's not even sure if it was really his kid.
2. During his sentence, he claimed that he was sexually assaulted repeatedly by another inmate (or inmates).
1. Last but not least, he told me that as a result of his rape, that he is now HIV+.
(I THANK GOD that I never had sex with him!!!!).......Does anyone out there think that I was being biased for immediately "dumping him" after finding out this information about him? Is it normal for a woman to find out that the guy that she's invovled with has so many "skeletons" in his closet? Has any other females out there been in a similar situation? All SANE comments ONLY are welcome.....!
Does this story fit one of these flags? If so, click it! [Best Of] [Funny] [Interesting] [Weird] [Repetitive] [Lame] [Vulgar] [F*cked Up] [Fake] [Off Topic] [Innapropriate] [Adult]
Comments (6)
Anonymous
2006-07-24 07:44:38
Wow, to much baggage
You did the right thing.

But, he could have lied and made all that stuff up just to make you head for the hills!
Reply
galeni (2821)
2006-07-26 02:02:53
i'm a straigh man and i would have dumped him ASAP too.
dont take me wrong, but how can u trust someone like that?! honestly seems like too much, maybe he really wanted to be you the one dumping him and not viceversa, so he made up all that... don't you think so?
if not a lie, then even though he told you the truth, how to deal with such a person?
[ Funny ] [ Helpful ] [ Abusive ] Reply
smurph (2483)
2006-08-11 19:36:29
ok i wouldent have made the title whats wrong with guys cause im not like that it should be what the f**k is wrong with the people i date and you did a good job leaving him ill give lot of guys suck
[ Funny ] [ Helpful ] [ Abusive ] Reply
OrderSolDragonInstallGunflame (3861)
2006-09-28 01:32:52
Mmm, Venarial Disease. It's what puts the tang in relationships.
[ Funny ] [ Helpful ] [ Abusive ] Reply
sisophous (3738)
2006-12-12 17:30:52
It is all about picking and choosing the right person. Some people make horrible decisions and subconsciously select bad people often because they have low self esteem and don't feel they deserve better. The guy you dated for three months had to have raised red flags and most people could have seen it, identified it and would have ran away from him, cut him off. There are a lot of good guys out there who are responsible, good providers and would make good life long partners. Dating is all about the selections process, to see who is most compatible. Choose wisely, same goes for the guys seeking girls.
[ Funny ] [ Helpful ] [ Abusive ] Reply
mimi (1554)
2006-12-12 18:00:27
@: sisophous
Actually, I didn't seek him ouit, He pursued me. Are you saying that I may have low self-esteem and my "attitude" is attrcting the wrong guys? You ca't judge a book by its' cover until after you open and read it--Luckily, I closed the book so to speak before I finished the first chapter.
[ Funny ] [ Helpful ] [ Abusive ] Reply
Thanks for the add! Don't forget to add isitnormal to your friends on MySpace and join our Facebook Group.