boyfriend problems
i'm 18, i've been with my b/f for 3 months. theres times that i feel like i'm single again. we live close to each other, but i don't see him that much. when i call it sometimes takes awhile for him to call back. but the thing is that i see my guy friend more than i see my b/f. and also my guy friend is alot easier to talk to and stuff. i just don't know what to do. besides i can't ask my mom b/c she died 6 years ago.
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Then your mom will be alive for your advice!
Sounds like your b/f might be pulling away from you.
You've got to ask him what's up with him avoiding you.
I've found that guys, especially guys MY age (18) can get really fickle sometimes. It is like they have the SEX drive, but IF serious EMOTIONS start being called into play they start to get weirded out.
It could be that your BF is developing stronger feelings for you and doesn't quite know how to deal with them, or even if he wants to (It MUST be a guy thing! THIS is why I date boys who are either a yr or two younger or older than me) because the emotions are so new.
Also, not to bust your bubble, but it could ALSO be that he is just not as into you as he once was. it is sad, but it happens. If this is the case then don't freak out to badly. I know it hurts (My First bf dumped me for an older woman...a 14 yr old) and I was like TOTALLY crushed! But given time it passes.
Why not just sit down and Talk to your guy? Don't make it all "romantic" cause I have found that some guys tune out, but just TALK to him and honestly.
Wishing you luck.
Tobra