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i'm 18, i've been with my b/f for 3 months. theres times that i feel like i'm single again. we live close to each other, but i don't see him that much. when i call it sometimes takes awhile for him to call back. but the thing is that i see my guy friend more than i see my b/f. and also my guy friend is alot easier to talk to and stuff. i just don't know what to do. besides i can't ask my mom b/c she died 6 years ago.
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well there is one solution... I can't believe you never did it yet! It's called necromancing, hello! dig your mother up say this little incantation:
HEL! HELOYM! SOTHER! EMMANVEL! SABAOTH! AGLA! TETRAGRAMMATON! AGYROS! OTHEOS! ISCHYROS! ATHANATOS! IEHOVA! VA! ADONAI! SADAY! HOMOVSION! MESSIAS! ESCHEREHEYE!

Then your mom will be alive for your advice!
Anonymous
^^ That's just mean fuqnut . . .

Sounds like your b/f might be pulling away from you.
You've got to ask him what's up with him avoiding you.

what's mean is shoving another dime-a-dozen love problem story down the thoats of this site's good users, when it specifically says not to.
by the time im 18, my mom would have died 6 years ago too. im sorry about you're mom, trust me i know its hard
your, not you're, gosh im tired
I recommend you slit your wrists. Your boyfriend hates you, your best friend hates you, AND your mom is dead, it's the only sensible thing to do.
Also, you should work on your grammer.
I just want to say this now, because millions of women do this same thing all the time. YOUR GUY FRIEND IS THE RIGHT GUY FOR YOU IDIOT. You get along great, you love spending time together, and he understands you and cares about you. Guess what, he's in love you with you, you blind moron. You obviously don't give two shits about this other guy, but feel for some retarded reason that you must make it work. STOP IT, STOP BEING STUPID AND GO FOR YOUR GUY FRIEND WHO IS MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. But then again maybe it's best for him that he never gets involved with you.
I dunno,

I've found that guys, especially guys MY age (18) can get really fickle sometimes. It is like they have the SEX drive, but IF serious EMOTIONS start being called into play they start to get weirded out.

It could be that your BF is developing stronger feelings for you and doesn't quite know how to deal with them, or even if he wants to (It MUST be a guy thing! THIS is why I date boys who are either a yr or two younger or older than me) because the emotions are so new.

Also, not to bust your bubble, but it could ALSO be that he is just not as into you as he once was. it is sad, but it happens. If this is the case then don't freak out to badly. I know it hurts (My First bf dumped me for an older woman...a 14 yr old) and I was like TOTALLY crushed! But given time it passes.

Why not just sit down and Talk to your guy? Don't make it all "romantic" cause I have found that some guys tune out, but just TALK to him and honestly.

Wishing you luck.

Tobra
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