Dude, You are a sucker. If she Takes that stuff from you it means she has no shame with F-ING you over.

Your situation is strange and NOT healthy.
BOO HOO a lot of us had poor childhoods. Wise up and "Tap that Ass".

word up.

I hope she's gonna pay you back.

goldidigger

If your generosity toward this girl comes with strings attached (ie, you want her to be your girlfriend in return) then it's really not very generous. Either she's just a friend that you wanna help out, or you're hoping you can subtilly buy her affections. It's not likely to work out. You will probably end up disappointed, and she will end up hurt, thinking you were never really her friend but were just investing in her in the hope of some future relationship.

yo, the bitch is using you. She can get loans or some kind of aid from the government if she really does need it

Youre being stupid.

Do not give her another dime and get the money back.

Less is more, if you ever give a gift to a friend, make them things small in value. I once gave a girlfriend $800 cash as a gift. She asked for nothing or even hinted at wanting anything. Looking back, I regret it because we went out own ways and it was inappropriate what I did. An important lesson I've learned over the years is not to fall victim to women's sob stories and attempts to gain sympathy and emotional support. They are very good at it and prey on the vulnerable guys this way. Life is tough, we all have difficulties, but do not give a cent more, cancel the card and do not pay for school. I would bet money she will not take kindly to it and will go to prove she was not worth helping from the start and just using you. Helping people is honorable, but do that for family, relatives, siblings or spouses, not acquaintances. Consider this girl a lesson in life. Good luck.

You really are childish dumb asses

it's nice of you . . . but dude . . . be careful