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Am I a lesbian?
I think I like girls. I know it's kinda wierd to be thinking about this at age 12, but I can't help it. When I'm with guys I don't have trouble talking to them; But when I'm talking to other girls I keep staring at them and fantasizing. I told my very close friend about it,and she feels the same way. Now I keep fantasizing about her and I think we are beggining to like each other as more than friends.
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Comments (9)
Yes! I know!!!
Wait till you are 18, then lick her backFat all night long. Then move here to Canada and get married.

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Real comment
if you are really in this situation: IT IS NORMAL to be in that situation at your age. the proof is that your friend is in the same situation.
you are finding differences between both sexes. it does not mean you are lesbian.
Don't worry about it! you are too young to "decide or choose" your sexuality. give it time, continue with your life as if nothing. think about that in some other 4 years.
I want to tell you to wait as long as possible to get started in sex. if you are mature, you will enjoy sex things in a safe way and your life will be a little easier, cause if you do things maturely and carefully, you have less chance of screwing things up. and i believe you dont want that for you... at least i hope so.
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Anonymous
just fuck er
Anonymous
It's normal. Don't think about it too much.
You're still very young. Take it slow. Don't stress about it. When I was about 12 or 13 my best friend had these type of feelings and was unsure for a time. In the end she wound up being totally straight. Maybe you're gay maybe you're straight. 12 is too soon to know for sure. It will all sort itself out in the end though.
Something you might want to consider, this might not be a "Lesbian" thing. Look, a relationship, ANY relationship is about more than just sex.

You say that you've been having fantasies about your friend, but what are your FEELINGS for her when you are NOT thinking about going lips to labes with her?

If you are imagining what it would be like to BE with her, laugh with her, hold her when she cries, hang out, Be Together and there for each other OUTSIDE of the bed, then you may well be inclined to be a lesbian. If so, great. You are young yet, but consider your feelings - And Hers.

If you just think she is sexy, pretty (or pretty sexy) and want to touch her up or kiss her in interesting places... Well, that would incline me to believe that you are either bi-sexual, bi-curious or are just wanting to experience something SEXUAL with someone you find appealing, whatever their sex.

I have...some desires to maybe try sex with another girl, maybe...but I'm Not sure I could ever Go Out With One exclusively.

My thots.

Tobra
me two sometimes i want to try to do sexual things with other girls but too afraid cuz they might accuse me of being a lesbian but i just want to see wat all the fuse is about
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