The solution to your problem is:
jog slowly for an hour, three times a week.

Do that and your problem will be gone in a year.

And no, women dont wanna date men with titts.

I'm sorry to say that yes I would find man boobs a bit of a turn off. If I liked you a lot, it's the sort of thing I could probably overlook though--like bad teeth or big buggy eyeballs (my husband has both). So don't let it get you down. Most girls have plenty of their own imperfections; if you can accept theirs, they can accept yours.

You may be embarassed about your man boobs when you're looking for a one night stand, but there's no reason to be shy about your short commings when you're with someone who loves you.

Self confidence is really important for finding a girlfriend. If you can learn to be comfortable with your body desipite it's flaws others will be more drawn to you.

How big? Maybe I could share my bras with you.

One of the comments is true all girls have imperfections they don't want to talk about. In bed when a girl really cares about you she will overlook almost anything except if you're a terrible screw so be more confident and if a girl isn't willing to overlook that she isn't worth it.

To be honest, it might be a little bit of a turnoff, but not gross or anything. But if I like a guy that kind of thing doesn't matter and is easy to ignore.
Besides, you're tall and that's attractive. In fact 200lbs sounds about right for your height. Perhaps you should see a doctor about that, because you don't sound overweight.
I've heard of that condition occuring for men, and it's fairly common too. I'm afraid that I don't know what it's called.
But don't worry sweetie. The right girl won't care either way.

Your condition sounds like Gynecomastia, large breasts in males. It's quite common today in males and thought to result from all the preservatives in foods as well as passed on through genes. Weight reduction helps, but likely not to completely eliminate appearance of oversize breasts. Plastic surgery can help remove most of it, by taking out the fat cells causing oversized breasts. Cost is not cheap, figure at least $4,000 on the low end in the USA. If you went abroad prices much less.