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What do you think?
Why wont he ask me out?
I really like this guy, and i know that he likes me too, and we cuttle and hug and stuff all of the time, we almost kiss a lot, but i dont want to kiss him untill we are going out and i dont want to ask him out because i dont know why he wont ask me out. This has been going on for at least a month now and i dont know what to do. is it normal for him not to ask me out?
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Comments (12)
Anonymous
!!
maybe hes wondering why you wont ask him out? or maybe hes scared!....you could get a friend to look into it or use a direct approach and just ask...good luck!
Anonymous
The same thing is happening to me and it's driving me crazy!!ugh well if he really really likes you he won't need to ask you, you'll just know that your going out,well at least that's what my friends keep telling me.
Anonymous
yes this is normal
Your going to be a booty call, and he don't wanna ask you out because he would have to stick with you when he can be getting lots of other ass.
Advise
Trust Me...I wanted a girl with the same story line you have, i missed my oppertunity though and she found another guy thinking i was not interested...later she told me of her thoughts about me i was so angry because i was playing it slow and almost too afraid to say anything MY ADVISE: GO RIGHT TO HIM AND SAY "I LIKE YOU, ASK ME OUT"... Whats the worst that could happen? I wish the other person would have done that....And yes it is 100% normal.
Anonymous
agreed
Frank is right, the guy is probably just shy. Make a subtle move, make sure he knows that you're interested in dating.
Anonymous
mine
Hey everybody, this is my story and i took your advise and i got my friend to look into it. It ends up that he likes me but not enough i guess. He doesn't want commitment (sp?), thanks for all of your advise.
He's probably got his own thread on here saying he's afraid to ask you out. Just do it already. Worst that could happen is he'd say no. Which would still be better than sitting here worrying about what's going on.
He's probably afraid. Or maybe it hasn't even crossed his mind that this might be an issue -- guys are less likely to see a difference between "the girl I hang out with a lot and want to kiss" and "the girl I go out with".

My suggestion is that you gently check out the situation in a way that can keep you from getting embarassed... next time you're cuddling, outright ask him if he'll ask you out, but at the same time, lay it on thick with the flirting, so if he says no you can always save face by saying you were kidding and exaggerating.
a guess
i bet if you give him nice solid head he'll be more interested.
Anonymous
He is probably to insecure and shy to ask you. He likes you and would like to ask you out. Too bad he has a really tiny penis.
hi,,i no how u feel i am going threw d same thing at the moment.i did not ask him out yet this has been going on for a long time now.he will ask u.. my man asked me last nyt 2 get wiv him..so dont be woring bout it he will ask u out in the end..!!!
. said:
I LIKE YOU, ASK ME OUT
såM ërë says:
no




hey well that worked well didnt it. OR NOT :(
i loveeeee himxxxx
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