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Randomly met a female, started dating her very quickly and basically fell head over heels for her. She's BEAUTIFUL (especially considering I'm not all that great-looking), loves the same type of music and movies I do, we apparently look good together, we have fun when we're together, have great conversations, etc., ad nauseum.

About 3 or so weeks ago I caught her lying to me about something pretty stupid, but it was none the less a lie. And honesty is very important to me, because if someone can lie about something that doesn't matter, why couldn't they lie about something that does matter? Either way we talked it out, and I felt I was being a bit unreasonable and tried to be more patient.

Needless to say I know she's lying to me again, even if just about stupid things again. I've found myself feeling very anxious and suspicious about it. And before anyone chimes in by saying "jealousy is normal," I feel that I'm caring about this a bit TOO much and letting it occupy my thoughts far too often. I would like nothing more for her to just be honest with me about everything, even if she thinks it would hurt my feelings or something.

Is my intense suspicion normal?

P.S. - Apologies if you found this "lame" or stupid, but I really would like to hear some serious opinions on this.
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Anonymous
2006-08-09 18:38:09
A lie is a lie, big or small . . .
You have a right to be suspicious of anything she says since she's lied to you a few times already.
There's probably been other lies, and you just didn't realize them at the time . . .

What was her reason for lieing to you anyways??
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Anonymous
2006-08-09 21:30:04
very very normal!
it is normal to want to know everything even if it would hurt your feelings, im the same way though no one wants to tell me or you everything its just the way it is, i have learned to get over it. well try to ignore it anyways!
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Hankanextra30letters (3176)
2006-08-10 17:47:03
@: PainInTheAss
If she's lieing to you, then you have a right to know. Even if it hurts you. Keep asking her. Even if she dumbs you, oh well, find someone who doesn't lie.
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Chuckle (2016)
2006-08-11 21:23:15
WOAH don't push it she might hate you for it
you tight ass screw honesty and screw that girl too before she screws your best friend
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Crazydiamond (3320)
2006-09-28 12:43:44
Do you know why she is lying to you? If it's to protect you or someone else, then that might be ok. If she's doing it for her own gain, then you've got a problem. Seeing as you've obviously got an inferiority complex here you're probably letting more stuff go than you normally would, as you're willing to compromise more as you think she's too good for you and you should hang on to her. She'll probably hurt you further down the line as she knows she can get away with it. If you're not prepared to compromise yourself this much, then ditch the bitch.
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dalfaceNY (4054)
2006-11-11 06:35:59
we all lie about stupid things, i think you are insecure bc maybe you feel the relationship is too good 2 b true...and it probably is
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