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Sex with a guy boring ... Sex with a grl?! Iono.
Ok I am not a virgin anymore because I lost it to a guy just to lose it. He was my boyfriend at the time and i didn't love him. I liked him though. But when i had sex with him i didn't feel anything. I just laid there and he just went at it. But about a year ago i met a girl who became my bestfriend. We hung out all the time and shared secrets. But i never told her that i was growing feelings for her. (As it turns out she was developing a crush for me too). But i can't imagine having sex with a girl. But having sex with a guy was totally BORING. Am I a lesbian?? Im so confused right now. Sometimes i still daydream about being with her. But im really into guys...does this make me Bisexual?? But seriously is there something wrong with me?? Or is it ok?

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Comments (14)
.xox.mle (1365)
2006-08-10 09:15:45
Hmmm..... Are you also sexually attracted to this guy or are you just 'into' him for his personality? It could just be a phase and hormones, but you might be either gay or bisexual. Either one is perfectly ohkay and there is nothing wrong with homosexuality.
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Ironsufficient (943)
2006-08-10 09:26:42
1st problem was loosing your virginity "just to loose it".
2nd problem, you've only had sex once and with someone you didn't really care for, wait until you are really connected to someone and then give it time. You can fly a plane just by jumping in the pilot's seat, you have to learn.
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CrazyMoFo (1953)
2006-08-10 14:52:31
Well just cuz you had sex and didnt enjoy it doesnt mean ur a lesbo, Your X probably didnt know how to hit your spot. and so wat if u like another girl. Maybe your BI, and thats kool. If you actually do make a move on this girl, you have to post up wat happens (if it turned out good or bad) and then maybe u'll want a threesome, you, her, and me.
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galeni (2821)
2006-08-10 21:16:55
NOT LESBO OR BI!!
as the first comment says, this is just a phase probably. you had sex with a guy just to do it and of course did not enjoy it! girls having a crush on girls is probably due to the "exchange of secrets, becoming very good friends, etc, etc" but dont let this confuse you. you like your friend a lot, but that is it. girls sometimes learn to kiss and to masturbate with other girls, but that does not make them lesbians at the end.
How old are you? probably less than 16?? take your time!! this situation will not decide your sexuality, dont worry about a lot about it, you said it!! you are into guys...
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Chuckle (2016)
2006-08-11 21:06:47
Try it then send us some pics. Maybe a video if you're feeling creative.

BOY HOWDY WOO EEEEEEEEEE
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jenisis (883)
2006-08-12 02:57:17
U just want her, get her.
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err_mad_confusing (3171)
2006-08-24 04:02:12
@: .xox.mle
ok i guess you are right. but we talked about it and she(my friend)and me really do have feelings for each other. she told me she wants to go out with me. i wouldn't mind going out with her b/c like i said i daydream about being with her. and i liked his personality but around the time i had sex with him we got into a fight. and the next time we had sex i found out he lied about alot of things. i jus laid there and was like wow so whts the hype? i had my first boyfriend at like 9 and i had my first kiss with him and now he's more like family. but im still confused.
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babyangel2580 (1623)
2006-08-26 20:36:45
its totally normal, call me, we'l make it a 3some
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jbirdhouse99@hotmail.com (3421)
2006-08-28 02:40:59
It normal to be lesbie.!!!
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Preacher-man (3521)
2006-09-01 03:20:54
Nothin' wrong with you at all I'd wager.
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cvc7chris (3764)
2006-09-22 02:15:08
defently Bi'
or Lezbo
Either one
but i would
pick Bi if i were u
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mindfreak (4990)
2007-02-13 15:25:10
he was just horrible in the sack. whatever, try new things, go weith whatever you want
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October (10003)
2007-08-14 19:49:25
Hold on luv,

The first time is always kinda rough (For Us) I think.

Give it time! :)

Tobra
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err_mad_confusing (3171)
2007-09-14 04:01:37
ok shadow34 ur jus fucking pathetic. did u even get wht i was writing? of course not ur jus too fuckin arrogant! n e ways. i seen her over the summer and nothing happened. i wanted something to happen but nothing did and its prolly b/c she has a boyfriend rite now. but we talked about it. she said tht she doesn't know why she fell for me but she did. I was different than any other girl lol. but yah i gave my best guy friend a blow job to see if i would like doin tht kinda stuff...it was the 1st time i ever had sperm in my mouth lol. it was weird...i gagged! haha! we didn't have sex. i was afraid his parents were gona walk in.
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