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i fantasize about lesbians

i've always said that i was straight and i love men and have crushes on men but i always masturbate to women. i like porn and i'll watch all kinds of porn but my favorite is lesbian porn. when i watch it i fantasize about being sexually involved with other women. however when i'm done, i feel no attraction to women. i dont want to be in a relationship with a woman, i have a boyfriend that i love and we have great sex, but whenever i'm alone and masturbating i always think about women. i need to know am i truley bisexual? or is this just a phase? do other women feel this way? because i am more aroused by naked women than naked men, but i always have my greatest orgasms with my boyfriend , but only when he's performing oral sex. and the thing that turns me on the most about lesbian porn is oral sex. can anyone give me any insight as to what's going on with me?

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cabinet69 (3089)

2006-08-18 21:06:27

You should try it and see whats its like even if you only do it once sounds like you will enjoy it

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omerta (1644)

2006-10-19 16:33:31

Bah, I can't figure out how to do the anonymous thing, but basically I feel the exact same way as you. In fact, every last thing you wrote summed up how I feel. I find that I like the comfort of being with a man, they feel strong/safe in a way a girl never could. I can't even keep girls as friends and definitely don't think I'd want a relationship with one, but naked men just don't do anything for me, lol. I'm not gay, I know I'm not straight, I'm not bi-sexual or pansexual, I'm just me.

There's a lot more to sexual attraction than a person's body, and there's a lot more to a relationship than sex. So long as both me and my boyfriend are happy and fulfilled in our relationship, I don't think my sexuality is a problem at all. :]

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Shaka_Zulu (3938)

2006-10-19 21:55:42

you are not bi, you are gay.

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seventh_shot (1935)

2006-11-11 19:16:34

@: Shaka_Zulu

Shaka, don't go making judgements like that. The girl who told the story is the only one who can make that decision.

Anyway, original poster, since you seem to enjoy both sexes... well, what do you think? ;) I'm about in the same boat you're in -- I have a great man, but when I fantasize or watch porn, it's about women. You should try a woman at least once to see how strong the feelings are. Talk to your boyfriend about maybe doing a threesome sometime: you, him, and another girl. That'll give you a chance to explore a woman's body in all the ways you've been dreaming about without feeling too gay. Plus, you don't have any obligation to do it again.

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forreal (3910)

2006-11-11 19:57:17

I agree with Seveth_shot. If you can, do it with someone you are already comfortable with. If you are up front about wanting to experiment a little, you should be fine. And once you get it out of your system, you will probably be able to think about other things too when having sex, not just being with another girl. I think most guys would be up for a three-way or even just hearing about your experience afterward. I think you are normal.

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snoopdoggy (4315)

2006-11-13 02:39:36

pussy r good and cool

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snoopdoggy (4315)

2006-11-13 02:40:03

@: snoopdoggy

and it good to smell the pussy whoo hoo!!

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Someperson (4345)

2006-11-15 16:13:40