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Hey, i am a 13 year old girl...Don't start lecturing me to. ;p Anyways so i have been masterbating since i was little, maybe 7. So i have been attempting to finger myself in the shower but it feels strange, i am scared it might hurt. What should i do? Thanks.
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Please, someone help...
It is strange that you say you've been masturbating since you were 7, but you say you're afraid a finger is gonna hurt you.
Well i masterbate in a different way...I take a cloth or a sweater and tuck it inbetween my legs. The i cross my legs and like..'hump' it?
alright, you're 13, im almost 15 so, i see no shame in masturbating at this age. anyways, if you have time on the computer where no one can see you. go to google and search "masturbation tips" it sometimes takes a while of different words to find a good tip for you, but u'll find them eventually. do u know what ur clit is? you'll need to know that for ultimate pleasure
I've already tried that, and of roucse i know what that is. lol. I am mature for my age...Anyways i have googled a lot of stuff trying to get advice and things but nothing works. :(
I need some advice on getting wet aswell. I mean everytime i masterbate i get a little bet wet, but then it goes away pretty fast. What are some things i can do that will turn me on and then urge me to cum? :S
and as an urge to cum. well a girl CAN ejaculate, but it's complicated..i cant tell u how to do that, but as for climaxing, try differnt things oh and to get wet, you just need to be sexually aroused
How can i get aroused though???
Think of hot boys . . .
fantise, think of someone that you would want to have sex with. or at least be around you. someone that excites you, in that way
Lick your finger and rub it on yourself keep it wet it will eventually go in. Dont try the shower untill you can do this.
Gently stimulate the clitoris using the tips of your index finger and thum nails. Now, think of an amalgam of all kinds of human beings stacked on top of each other naked in a massive orgy. Think of the heat and the opportunities that arise from the said intoxicated mess of life.
I get the impression ferret is really a boy trying to get girls to talk dirty and disclose how they get off.

Most people will learn by instinct what feels good and how to get off. If you've really searched out how to do it on the internet and you still can't figure it out, maybe you need to wait until you are a bit older.
OMG, 7 years old. Fuck, i didnt know what a vagina was until i was 9 (im male) and the first time i wanked off, i was almost 16!
wow this guy above me is wierd 16 is just daft so what if she was 7 u you wer 16
Use the shower head to squirt water against your labia. Then stick the bath brush in there. It's less painful than fingers.
im 13, and im very curious about fingering myself, a few of my friends have done it, but im kind of scared, does it hurt??
ok gurls, i hav experience, so listen up, i think it is great exploring at a young age.. the best thing 2 do , is insert your finger/s and curl them upwards to ur face.. this will please the G spot
Hey, well.. im 12. Yer... PLZ PLZ PLZ DONT JUDGE ME! All my friends have said, they have fingerd themselves b4. Well, i have. but nothing happend. Also, i have a pump bath. I turned it on.. and well u kno da rest, it felt good. But then it got too much nd i had to move. Now, the pump isnt the problem, the fingering is.. how can i feel the same as what i did with the pump? And ferret, im in the same position as u.x
I am in the same boat as above...im 14 and i dont know whether im doing it right or not. it just doesnt feel like anythings going on down there sometimes, so i just do my clit. Hint: to get turned on, try something other than porn (if you watch it). try to read erotic literature (literotica.com)
Hey i no just how you feel. I started when i was 10 (im 15 now) and i no just how u feel. Just put ur finger in ur pussy and let ur most erotic dreams fly by. Works every time!
haii im new to this and this year i started 2 finger my self. im 13 and i want to no if i should be using a vibrator
my frends ave just started 2 finger theirself and they are already using a vibrator
my frends brought me 1 2 and i used it and it felt realy realy realy gud do u think it is to much at the moment??
oh and i was using the vibrator and all this wite stuff came out of my va**na was that ment 2 happen??
was it cum??
are gurlz ment 2 cum??
plz dont judge me but my bf has fingerd me b4 is that rite or not??
XxX bubi
plz some1 help
hayleyangel: I don't think that a boyfriend fingering you is wrong. My boyfriend did that for me when I was about fourteen, I think. My personal advice to you would be to not let him take your virginity, but fingering is just plain fun ;)

And girls are meant to cum, of course they are! It just doesn't happen the same way a guy's does, of course.

And I have a vibrator, and it gets the job done quite well, though sometimes there's just no substitute for your own fingers (when you're doing it solo, that is).

And don't worry, you're perfectly normal. Sounds like everything happened like it was supposed to. ;)
And if you don't have a vibrator, buy an electric toothbrush. Thats what I did before I got a vibrator. Just please, please, PLEASE make sure you keep it somewhere where NO ONE will find it and use it because...that would be so disgusting I can't even imagine... Lol
i don't have a vibrator or an eletric toothbrush. how do i get one without anyone knowing. none of my friends now how to finger themselves, they never been fingered either, but i have and it felt really good, but when i do it it doesn't feel really good. someone tell me how to really do it.
Whoa...first of all your were masterbating at 7? I don't think that anyone should cum at 7, I noticed that I came while grinding on something when I was 12...BTW Im a guy. 7 is like wtf? Are you high when u masterbate? Maybe shootin' some drugs? 7 is an insane age to masterbate, plus if you masterbate too much you start shaking like gay guys do because they take it in the @$$ and they have alot of fear in them. PS If ANYONE (Incuding the masterbating girl with problems) has Gears of War for Xbox 360, email me @ supa_dupa_fly_boy@hotmail.com
By the way, if you girls are looking for a boyfriend, hit me up, im 13, im white, and I live in Fairifax, Virginia. And uh for Xbox Live, my gamertag is Dark Princ3, send a friend request to him and ill pwn u in some Gears of War, Call of Duty 3, or Battlefeild 2:MC, some girls might not know wtf im talking about, but its called a game console and vag*nas make electroics defective.
im 13 nd have been fingering my self for about a month. I dont get pleasure out of it most the time i have the urge to scream nd i have came before but how can i get more pleasure out of it. and make can i finger myself like a day before my period is due???
please reply i need help
im 13 n i hav been tring finger my self seens i was 11 or 12 in the shower but i cant like "do it" i get tat "felling" but it goes away rite away

plezzzzzzzz i need help!
wat do i do?
hi im 12, and i finger myself but i want to get more pleaser out of it but i dont know how to! can you help me!
i feel like i need to somthing long and vibrating to put up my pussy but i don't know what? can you give me somthing ideals plz!
can you help me!!!!
hi im 13 and belive this ive been masterbating since i was in a car seat only i found out wat it was this year its wen babys masturbate with out knowing it and ive been doing it ever since. i know its crzy but i had no control over it. i know how to finger and sometimes i use a hard object. but i really wanna find my g-spot. plese help me!
You can get an electric toothbrush pretty much anywhere. Either use your own money or ask your parents to buy it for you. They'll just think you want to brush your teeth with it.

Just make sure you don't get one that has the whirring bristles or anything because that might be uncomfortable, I don't know since I've never tried it. Just get the basic vibrating kind.

Getting a vibrator would be pretty much impossible unless you're an adult.
hi.. i have been fingering myself for about 2months now.. i dont get any pleasure out of it.. i would really like to find my g-spot and would like some new tips on how to finger yourself properally and have enjoyment out of it

please help
hey im 16 there is no rite way to finger yourself just explore the first time i did it i was 12 i tried it in my bedroom now my boyfriend does it the first time you do it you will think what the fuk was i moaning about it doesnt hurt one bit its just relaxs you and gets you in the mood hope this is help-full to you
if u want to no anything just ask me
natasha2010@hotmail.co.uk just pretend im like a big sister ok :-)
@: tashak
hey i havnet ever fingered myself an i relle want to but i have nosey sisters that come around me al the time s ocan sum one tell me a way i can n the shower?
ok i am 12 and have the same problem i have done evrything electric toothbrush fingers pionting to me masuge and the onlything that works is the shower but i have done that sence i was 8 and it is boring plz help me what els can i do
hey i am also 13 years old...
and i have been masturbating since i was like
idk....11?
and well i havnt ben doing it with my finger...
i do it in the bath tub...
i just let the water fall on my va*na
ya know?
but i would like to start to finger myself..
but im not sure how to?
and if i even should..
is it bad??
i get horney ALOT...
and sometimes all i wanna do is masturbate.
is that normal?
Hi my name is nikki (Nciole) i am 14 and from hull and people keep askin me if i ve fingered my self and i hav i always do but i tell them i dnt no what to do because i feel ashamed but i love it opleaes help
Hi My Names Billy But I Get Called Bastard Or Beastii Billy..I Keep Asking My Mates weva they finger them selves and i just dont seem to beleev um sumtyms i finger my mam wen ma bird int around .. just wanna shout out to ma bird becki flan .. lv you..x
i wana fuk every lad i set eyes on i reli do n the trhing is im scared ov cock so plz elp me coz they wont stay wiv me all they want is sexual intersorse
hiya im billy i tell evryone i shag ppl but reli i ant aprt from myy bird becki i luv er so much and the thign is my penis is so small i dont know what to do ?
i think im gay what can i do ?
ok so....i would get horny when im on my period and i just want to finger myself but i dont because i think it would be gross.....would it be ok if u finger youself when you are on your period?
Will anybody get on here and tell me what i could do about fingering myself when im on my period......?¿?
i most cases, in period u will feel that happiness, try to avoid fingering that time..the best time is when after watching movies, or when it is a rainy day. its gives pleasure, nothing is bad, its natural to enjoy.try to use all fingers at a time........
i am 13 years old and i havn't had sex: virgin. i get really turned on when i masturbate but after a while it gets boring, i really crave sex.. is this normal? the total lust for sex? please help me!! xo
hello sexykiwii...
well i feel the same exact way you do..
im also 13!!!
but i think im waaaay to young for sex..
but i always just wanna do it...
but yah i know how you feel.
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hey
im 14 and i finger myself 2
the best theing to do is dont worry bout how u r doin it just do it and let your fingers tell u where 2 go
and bout the showwer thing
it will come with experience
hii,
well have tried to finger myself once
but, i didnt feel anything...oh btw im 13 and i've been sorta masturbating since i was maybe 10. but just with water. well can someone help me? i want to learn how to finger myself so it's pleasurable!
i'm 13 i never fingered myself mybf did it to me first it was not painful like i thought it mite be it felt really good i let him do it now when ever but anyways i don't like fingering myseld i don't know y i just don't so girls this is what i do it works everytime i get horny thinking about stuff or sometimes even porn and i get naked and and sit on a pillow with my legs spread like i'm going to hump it and i get other pillows and stack them in front of me and hold them agianst me and hump real hard i scream a mone sometimes i love it i don't want to have sex but i could hump my pillow for hours the longest i ever did it was 2 hours while watching porn i cumed so much it was great
@: Ferret
well all i do is just wait till ime home alone thn start rubbin myself, but it takes me ages o acually get the courage to insert. but i cnt hold it in for long. what else could i do when ime in there. Also how do i make myself cum? please help x
@: brenna
hey. the pillow thing. it really does work. it feels goodd. everybody should try it thats a girl. you would like it. i swear.
hey.. resently i have really been craving sex.. but im worried that itt will hurt alot.. how do u tell when your hyniem is broke??

please help me x
well if you wanna have sex just have sex.
i had sex this year and it hurt i bled. and u will feel when it brakes. i did.
yes, the white stuff was cum and it is normal. =]
okay, I'm 15 and I've wanted to finger but I never really have. I've tried to put my finger in, but I just can't bring myself to do it. I'm afraid it'll hurt. My bofriend has done it for me (with his finger) but it didn't feel very good so I think he did it wrong. I don't know what to do. One thing I've done instead is take this little vibrating thing out of my pillow I have and just move it around down there and applied different pressures and saving the viginal opening and clit for last. But after a while it gets boring. So can someone help me about fingering?
wow, i njoy it wen my boyfren fingers me.he likes it wen i finger myself n he watches.i like it wen he fingers me an den uzes the vibrator to mak me cum som more.
I tryed it im 12 but it didnt work how do make it feel good and make yourself cum?
im guna try that pillow thing..
im always trying to find different ways to pleasure my self..
any ideas anyone?
@: Ferret
Works thanks for that i tried it last night, anymore good tips?
The thing i do is dont insert. Try wraping a towel up or humping a pillow i have done it and it feels gooooddd!!
well i tried that...
and let me tell ya..
i didnt work??
=[[
i was soo sad.
i really need help guys..
please i need idea's on what to do..
i love pleasure but i dont wanna have sex till i find the right person,
=]]
does that pillow thing really work?...how do you do it?...
okay so im 13 also and i really wanna finger myself, i feel ashamed if i do it. I also have been wanting to have sex. could that be becuase i started my period or something, i dont know. But any tips on fingering because i REALLY want to
@: t-onna
finguering yourself is always good...just make sure your well lubricated..i'd recommned rubbing your private area ..it feels better.
go ahead and finger your self..
there is noting wrong with pleasuring yourself..
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FIngering is always gd as comalies said.. but get a electric toothbrush nd wear the head dwn on a towel or something then place it on your c*** and turn it on.. it feels good
I have just fingered myself fo the first tym...oh btw im 13. I dont feel anything is this normal? I find siting on the arm of a computer chair and going up and down very nice. That pillow thing doesnt really work. Try puting a vibrating massager near ur vagina it feels very very gud. You dont have to rush into fingering yourself just wait till u r ready. There is nothing rong with doing it and there is nothing to feel ashamed of! |x| :)
well i've never fingered myself before, i always wanted to but im to scared. and that pillow thing really does work.
can someone please tell me how to finger myself????
Hi I'm 19 and i've been fingering myself since i was 11 or 12 my friends use cooked hot dogs and i laugh at them but one way is 2 just put your finger on your pee hole and move it up and down fast and you'll feel pleasure or just find objects around the house and have fun try new objects and eventually ya'll find one you love!!
ok, im 14, and my boyfriend got me a d!ldo.... i dont know how to use it, for my other b'day present, he fingered me *dont juj me plz* it felt gr8! i tryed doing it myself, but how!!!! help me!
ok first, depends on what u do wit ur Pen!s that counts... if its really small... ur f4cked.
hey i am ur age and did the same thing. but just didnt start so young. so, i did fingur myself, and masterbating is completley normal. I have crazy stories lol. But it doesnt hurt, when i used a "toy" [ if u know wat i mean] it made me bleed and i freaked out. But it didnt feel good, i thought it would but it didnt. If i was you i would do wat im doing, and waiting for when i have a guy around.
Its me again! I have just turned 13 and i tryed everything and it DOESN'T WORK! HELP ME!
hey i am 11 and i tried fingering myself and i didn't feel anything so i tried harder and i started 2 bleed! i am so scared! it bled for 3 days! what is wrong?
@: Soyoung
its cause youve never done it before, im 16 and ive been fingering since i was about 11 and it just comes over time. fingering doesn't seem scary or even hurt anymore,i even look forward to it, it just feels so good spreading, then sticking my fingers down there and hitting the g-spot and my clit(you girls no what i mean), also try to cut your fingernails, long ones can cause cuts which can lead to bleeding, but if you finger often you tend to become used to your fingernails inside of you, especially the long french polish ones i have(so good for tickling the clit :p
All I can say is take your time, I think alot of gurls are rushing themselves and that's why they aren't enjoying what they are doing! Once you slow down and just feel yourself you will know where to touch! Then once you have accomplished that then try it with objects!
im a guy so i dont kno much on da subject but if u really want da ultimate experience, u got 2 do a guy. im open for any1
just email me at pcnapster@aim.com
i agree with kristina
umm im kinda new at this im 13 turning 14 i havnt had a bf at all i have tried to finger but i dontfeel anything id ont want to talk to my mum about it what should i do to make it feel good???
its me again and it kinda sounds dtupid but what is a g spot