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What should i do?

ok, my gf and i have been going out for almost 2 weeks. She says she wants to lose her virginity b4 new years, but when we get the chance to have sex she doesn't want to. However, she makes comments that make me think that she thinks i dont want to have sex with her. I want to have sex with her, but im not sure if its too soon, and if she feels the same way. What should i do
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Comments (12)
EccentricWeird (3314)
2006-08-27 16:11:13
She's pushing you away because it's obviously too soon. Why don't you wait a little more time before dececrating the temple that is your body?
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goshinki (3394)
2006-08-27 19:11:15
ok maybe i didn't make myself clear
she tells other ppl that i don't want to have sex with her when i do, she tells other ppl that she wants to have sex with me, but doesn't act like she wants to have sex when she's with me... what do i do?
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galeni (2821)
2006-08-27 22:32:56
what is your point of view? what do you think is better? i dont ask what you want to do because it si obviously to have sex, but what you consider is better for you both? how old are you guys? think about those things and make up your mind about what is better, if waiting 1-2 months or 1-2 years(depending on your age and maturity). After deciding, talk to her and ask her which is her position about it and tell her your position, then you two can decide and know exactly what is the otherone thinking, so no misunderstandings...
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weirdotoo (2626)
2006-08-28 19:41:09
@: galeni
ahmmm... you have been going out for two weeks? thats it?
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EyeAy (3483)
2006-08-30 06:37:57
You need to get her drunk and slam her back door in........ hope that helps.......
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youngandconfused (3939)
2006-10-06 18:12:04
WHY DONT YOU ROMANCE HER (sry for the caps) on new years eve. and well start having sex with her during the count down. your so young that im sure it wont take longer then ten secs..
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Mandyw190 (3677)
2006-10-21 17:53:29
ummm...RAP HER
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M_Eighty (4300)
2006-11-11 14:20:13
@: Mandyw190
To me it seems as if she wants you to make the first move. Thats why she says she wants sex with you, but when you are with her she makes you feel like you are the one who doesn't want sex. So the next time you are alone persuade her with some forplay and tell her that you won't have sex just forplay. From here you can get her right where you want her and she will be beggin for sex.
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Nelix (4302)
2006-11-11 22:13:42
Dump her...If she's making comments about the qualty of sex she expects I'll dump her...Make up some lie about to get rid of any boy friends she will try to get so say she has herpes or something.

Yet finding a girlfriend...Well That's not much of a problem,most girls want to have sex(The one you found is defective.)So go to a bar and use some cheesy lines or anything and you'll get it in no-time!...
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bouncexmysoul (3948)
2006-12-20 18:29:27
I think you guys shouldn't be in ANY rush to have sex. It's only been 2 weeks. But if your both ready then I say do it. Happy fucking!
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-07 02:09:09
No one ever just has sex outa the blue dude!

Its claled foreplay.. start off by frenching, then necking then on chest (not breasts!) then massage her back and thne front (including breasts) keep kissing etc.


just generic foreplay
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chicken_little (6547)
2007-03-14 02:52:14
dont let her push u into it, do it at ure own pace
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