If you "want to be" a lesbian, you probably already are one... and that's 100% normal and OK.
If your thoughts and feelings confuse or worry you, it may help you to see a counselor or psychologist -- it won't mean you're mentally ill, it's just that these are people trained in helping you to work through your emotions and figure out what they really are.
There a difference between being sexually oriented towards the same sex, and feeling admiration for a sub-culture. There IS a subculture associated with lesbians, but you have to ask yourself if you really want to have nitty-gritty sex with a woman. Imagine the acts, and if you would like them, hey you are already a lesbian/bisexual!
im straight.
but i hav no problems with lesbians or gays.
im friends with alot of gay people.
but i dnt know any lesbians.
i think that if u want 2 b lez then go 4 it, i tink some people r 2 shy 2 confess.
GO 4 IT!
Wanting to be lesbian because you think they are cool?
That is like wanting to be pregnant because you think pregnant girls are attractive. It may seem cool for awhile but there are other factors to be considered.
Hey, I am not trying to talk you out of it, I just want you to consider things. If you want to do a little lap & grind cool, but if you get into a lesbian Relationship and decide six months down the road that it is Not for you, you could mess the person you are with up emotionally.
Think hard on what YOU want, not just "lesbian sex looks cool" because there is Emotion behind any Relationship, lesbian, straight or otherwise.
If you just want a bi girl, look me up. I am wanting my first experience with another woman. ROFLMAO!
~Satan
If your thoughts and feelings confuse or worry you, it may help you to see a counselor or psychologist -- it won't mean you're mentally ill, it's just that these are people trained in helping you to work through your emotions and figure out what they really are.
but i hav no problems with lesbians or gays.
im friends with alot of gay people.
but i dnt know any lesbians.
i think that if u want 2 b lez then go 4 it, i tink some people r 2 shy 2 confess.
GO 4 IT!
That is like wanting to be pregnant because you think pregnant girls are attractive. It may seem cool for awhile but there are other factors to be considered.
Hey, I am not trying to talk you out of it, I just want you to consider things. If you want to do a little lap & grind cool, but if you get into a lesbian Relationship and decide six months down the road that it is Not for you, you could mess the person you are with up emotionally.
Think hard on what YOU want, not just "lesbian sex looks cool" because there is Emotion behind any Relationship, lesbian, straight or otherwise.
If you just want a bi girl, look me up. I am wanting my first experience with another woman. ROFLMAO!
Tobra