Am I Bi, Gay, or straight or just curious?
I consider myself a straight male, but when it comes to fantasies/masturbation I find that i have the best "times" when i fantasize about guys, even if i begin by using videos depicting women, I tend to change scenarios or focus on the guy in the video. I tend to fantasize that i am the "woman" and sometimes i indulge in wearing lingerie etc. I do not know if this makes me bi or gay, or if it is just an active fantasy life. While i do sometimes talk dirty on the net with guys, in "real life" i do not look at guys in any type of sexual way. I am not sure if maybe I simply refuse to admit i have desires for them, or if I only desire them in fantasies. such as the "forbidden fruit" fantasies. I have tried doing online surveys to see if u are bi or gay. However they tend to mostly focus on what actual sex you have done, not on what your fantasies are. So I'm not sure if fantasies are a clue or not as to what you are sexually. I will admit i masturbate quite often, and generally the ration of men fantasies to women fantasies is approx 90/10. give or take, though more often it is give. Any help or ideas would be appreciated.
Please say it is.
I'm a straight male too; luckily scoliosis never ran in my family.
'Forbidden fruit' is just a hilarious way of putting it. The ration of fantasies? Why do you give yourself a set limit? Weirdo.
Don't worry about the sexual aspect, for now you should just masturbate. Don't worry; it won't make you blind, as far as I can see.
Peace.
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Decide for yourself whether you want to be called straight, bi, gay, curious or none of the above. Each person is an individual and some of us are impossible to categorize. I know that I am attracted to both men and women and have had experiences with both. Does that make me bi? Well, I finally decided yes I would call myself bisexual because I enjoy both genders almost equally--but I made that decision for myself: I've had male gay friends that wanted me to say I was gay, and I was married (to a female) for several years as well, living the "straight" life. But I've always identified myself as bi.
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