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Is it ok to be a 14 year old girl hoo thinks she's fat well she is fat and is pritty ugly will i ever find love ?i hang around with alot of pritty friends and they all get boyfriends exept from me i feel so unwanted they all say im pritty but i think differnt can you help?
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You're too self-conscious. The more you put yourself down and say you're fat and ugly. the likely you are to believe it no matter what others tell you. Stop being so down and smile. Who care if you don't have a a boyfriend. who care if you are good looking for anyone. who cares what others might think about you. You be yourself.
You could try to stop avoiding salads before making your bodyswerves, as large as they must be, into fast food distributors such as McDonalds or Buger King. This will solve your "image" problems and will probably help on the boyfriend front.
However, if exersize and dieting seems like too much work, you can become a fat slut. Fat sluts are of course how the drunk and the ugly get laid so you will be providing a great service to your school and local town.

To become a fat slut all you need is a very small handbag, a top which shows as much cleavage as it does beer belly, and of course a mini-skirt from which your chunky thighs will wobble.
Thats the trouble isnt it in every group of girls theres always one fat ugly one and your it. When you meet 2 guys and your friends want to fuck one the other one might fuck you so his mate still gets a root best you can hope for especially if theyre really drunk
ok that was just mean.
yea dont be so self concious. be more like...looking in the mirror after you get ready and feel best and be like "dammmnnn im lookin hot today"
even though its yourself saying it if you do then you will feel better. and try to accept peoples compliments :]
dont even worry about it. there are plenty of men out there who love ugly/fat girls. im going by your words btw. so cheer up hun!
Every group has that one guy, who will sacrifice and take one for the team, So if I were u I wouldn't worry, U'll get one (eventually).
Guys go for self confidence. So uh. Get sum.
you lot are just being mean she's obv very nice and nice looking just a little worried by her apperance so dont be so bloody mean in future good luck hun one guy probs is just to scared to ask you out
trust me dnt feel unwanted or no one wants you your still so young you dont need a boyfrend and go through all the bull shit your in your teenage years have fun ,, and also i bet you your not what yu say i bet you your one of the prettiest girls but yu dnt want to beloive it ,, and if you do belive what you say instead of putting yourself down go to the gym to make you fell betta go to a salon and do something differnt with your hair or your style .. dont change for no one but if thats going to make you feel betta about yourself you shouuld think about it
Hey! I think I'm fat and ugly too! The thing is, it's true. It's alright, there are people out there for us! I care!..

The Angel
angel that's really nice what you said um gottah say im fat and ugly acctualy im pritty simaler to this person infact i am this person so yeah bubi
Hey! I think I'm fat and ugly too! The thing is, it's true. It's alright, there are people out there for us! I care!..


callin you ugly is an understatement.
callin you ugly is an understatement. can you tell me what you mean by that statement please ?
it means that hello666 thinks im udderly discusting, but i dont care. You know being confident has a lot to do with everything. Slowly I'm gaining confidence in myself, and if you can do that, you can do anything trust me. PS i know im fat - i dont think im ugly.

The Angel.
Baby angel i don't no what you look like but i bet theres some guy out there who like's you alot so lol luv flo
@: -flo-
LOL!
cabinet that was pretty funny
My brother is dating a fat (and in my opiniong ugly) girl right now, they jsut moved in togeather in an apartmetn, they met online. Then again they are oer 18 years. And you arnt, So honestly the only thing I can say is, if u want a GF because ur friends have one, then you cant do much, If you want one for intimate purposes, then you can do it alone at night, if you want one just to have one, you cant do much unless you get an ugly (and mabye fat) kid. trust me, atleast one kid at ur school likes you. probably an ugly one (sorry) but its true
I use to be the same way when I was young. I guess it is just a phase that many girls go through. Your friends might feel the same way too but they keep it to themselves and maybe they feel like that with different things. But like I said I was like that once. I thought I was ugly and fat etc. But things change and grow to become better if you choose. So just learn to love yourself because before anyone can love YOU! YOU have to LOVE yourself. *THAT IS THE TRUTH*
Girl,
You shouldn't think of yourself like that at all! Look in the mirror and point out the things you like. Your personality needs to change, you have to be more confident! THAT'S what's sexy!
You shouldn't put yourself down, every one has different taste. How do you know? Someone's bound to think you're beautiful.
cabinet69 .. ur a nob for saying that!
i mean you havent even met the girl!
don't add a comment to this if your just gona insult her.


girl who wrote this, i get where you're coming from, talk to your friends, maybe just one on there own and you'll find that they have insecurities too, everyone has them, just some people handle it different.
i think fat fat fat girls are disghusting. but just because you look ugly doesnt mean you won't find love, it can always happen. no offence intended towards you.
ah ur not ugly ...n nefer tink dat bout ur self ....dusent atter wats on d ouside inside dat kounts hun .....
The only thing worse than a fat and ugly teenager is a fat and ugly teenager who doesn't spell for shit.
Things that some people find attractive in some people (really skinny, big boobs, etc.) people (like me) find them unattractive. Don't worry, I like a girl that not one other person likes, I just don't know why, but I think she looks very attractive.

By the way, fat girls are the best.
this sounds like me five years ago.

i think the best thing i did for myself was turn off the tv, radio, and stop reading magazines that tell me how i am supposed to look.

you need to find your own beauty, style, and confidence.
im sure ur reli pretti bt u jus cnt c it

pll always put pressure on themselves to look/be a certain way bt jus concentrate on d tingz in ur lyf dat r gd n hav fun.
den ul c confidence n acceptance in urself will grw.
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