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Boyfriend Problem

SO i have been dating my Boyfriend for almost 2 year's. In the begining it was just, everything i can ask for, but now, its like he dosnt care at all. I mean i call him to ask him how his day was, or i try and make plans with him.. and when i do.. his friends always come tag alone. I can say im a really good girlfriend, i always do things for him, like im always there for him,. but he just totally slacked off and stopped careing about us... its really bugging me.i have told him over and over agian how i feel about it. and he tells me that he's going to change and do things differently, but its been 5 months since he said that, and there's no change at all. i love him with all my heart. but i cant even get a phone call from him, or even a nice msg.
i dont want to break up with him. what should i do??
Do you think it's normal?
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-09-25 01:56:34
Its over get used to it and move on hes bored with it wants to end it
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BrownIMMIGRANT (3843)
2006-09-26 03:23:09
He has someone else.. he doesnt really give a shit about you.. Girl.. its time to Break it off, he is giving you the chance to break up with him.... cuase he doesnt have the balls. just kick him in the nuts and boot him out the door.
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-09-27 17:26:18
Jus say look mate its been 5months i wanna see a change now or im walking end of. you'll get your answer, good luck
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sisophous (3738)
2006-10-12 13:43:01
Doesn't matter if you love him. Relationships are a two way street. If a partner doesn't reciprocate then ditch him/her. Stop wasting your time and making excuses for him or hoping he will change. Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, they should not be regarded as long term. Long term commitments are for marriage and even those don't have a high success rate these days. Stop calling him and cut him out, entirely. Make friends with other people. Gradually, he will fade from your mind once you make other friends who treat you better.
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Chloe59 (4103)
2006-10-24 08:33:04
hes probably cheating on you or just isn't ready for a commitment. mostly likely too is that for being with someone so long theyre true colors comeout.
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kaymichelle (4094)
2006-10-24 08:38:50
The author of this book has a talk show now>"He's Just Not Into You". If he'd rather rub d***s with his friends let him GO!!
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OIFYOIFYOIFY (4644)
2006-12-06 21:58:54
Your boyfriend is obviously homosexual. I suggest going to his house and shoving a hot fire poker up his ass then calling him a dirty, lying whore. That should solve all problems AND keep his cheating bitch ass in the hospital.
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MatthewDark (10431)
2007-09-06 20:25:28
oh god I feel very bad for you . . .
love is amazing and shouldn't be let go of . . .
but at the same time, you shouldn't be getting hurt like that . . .
just . . . like . . . emphasize how serious this is and how much it's hurting you
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