Am I bi.

Just try her out on the side and see if you like it then choose which one you want or have both of them in a nice 3some.

Well just try it, experiement otherwise you will never know.

Eat that kitty. Lap on it. Yeah.

just try the girl and invite ur boyfriend men like that stuff.

Horseshit the advice they are giving you. If you love your boyfriend stay with him. You're obviously straight and bisexuality is just a quick stop to gaytown. Human sexuality is complex and just experimenting with anything is dangerous. You will harm your boyfriend and yourself. This is why many in the gay community despise bisexuals. Because they are seen as unstable. Consider the consequences of doing this. Having gay sex is pretty serious decision. It seems you're straight but if you go down that route you might regret it in the future. You don't live in a bubble people will know and I'm telling you right know there's a lot of folks in the gbt community that love outing people. This will haunt you and could affect your future chances with men. Many men find bisexual chicks a turn on but would never marry one. Think about this.

ignore kohan, all mammals are inherently bisexual, (or omnisexual), and most males, (and alot of females too) will screw anything that catches their fancy.

plus i really dont thing your boyfriend will mind. but if you tell him, expect him to ask if he can watch. and my advice is to let him watch, but only to join in if hes fscking you.

and if you let him do her, never EVER use it against him in an argument, cause it was you desire to have sex with her in the first place.

dont listen to kohan, hell you only live once.
enjoy it and don't have any regrets!

Kohan gave excellent advice. I think nothing negative of a woman who is bi-sexual, but I would not want to be with her long term and would not pursue a relationship. She would at some point in time have the need to fulfill sexual intimacy with another woman because she did so in the past and accepted it as part of her makeup. A Bi-sexual woman's will is almost guaranteed to go to the same sex, particularly if she is fighting/arguing with her guy, it will be an easy way out to turn to another woman.

Alien-Carrot also made an excellent post, that all mammals are inherently bi-sexual, likely accurate and spot on. But, we live in a society where you must weigh the pros and cons and then decide what suits you most. Does raising a family in a traditional family meet your interests and needs? Or are you content with an alternative lifestyle? Consider future children you may include and the effects on them. Only you can decide, but realize the long term effects and the consequences.

Replies to this story are top notch and from readin some of them I get the gist of what sexual persuasion each person is, or chose to be.

I think you're asking the wrong question. Why the hell does it matter if you are bisexual? Unless, of course, you are a raving homophobe, which I really hope not. Don't cheat on your boyfriend. If you feel unsure you should definently experiment. Maybe ask your boyfriend for some time? Good Luck.

Depends on your age. If you're 16 or younger then you really dont know your orientation yet. But if you're older than that you might be bi.

1) Tell your boyfriend
2) Tell your friend
3) Ask both of them what their oppinions are
4) Its ok to be bi, you dont need to know if your bi or not, if you feel and urge, act on it!
5) Ask your school counselor, but make sure that you have her swear not to tell anyone else. if she does, you can sue the school system for over a million dollars.

I don't view people as having much of a defining sexuality. You love a person, not a set of genetalia. Do you love your boyfriend or do you love your girlfriend?
You can either experiment behind his back and find out who you want more, or you can be upfront about it. SOme guys don't really care about their girlfriends experimenting with other women. Some may even think it is hot.

Be careful though, you may mess up your relationships simply by mistaking strong deep love for sexual desire.

good luck!

All of you should have a 3some!!!!!!!!!

just kidding
No but I think it's normal. Just don't blow your bf off any longer. Be honest with him

Tell them both how you feel. Then ask further questions on here in relation to the responses that you get. Ehehe.

sex is just sex.

Your a lez.

bi is okay and you might not even be bi
who cares? labels are shit
you like who you like
love who you love
date who you date
and fuck who you fuck
if someone makes something out of it, break their face in
=) enjoy life