not ready but at the same time ready.
okay well ive been going out with my brothers friend for 3 weeks now. and he is always asking me to came over and to have sex with him, and i have gone over to his house but we havent done anything because my brother is their. and my bf is always telling me that he loves me and all these sweet things, and he tells my brother to tell me that he loves me etc. and me and him always talk dirty and i really want to have sex with him, but i dont think im ready. and i dont know what to do so can some1 plz give me some usefull advise?
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Chop chop...
just because someone says something nice does not mean he loves you.
in fact-i can guaruntee that 99.9% of the teenagers in relationships out there who say they're in love aren't. it just doesnt happen.
don't do it.
don't.
if he really does love u then he will understand.
but until u r ready FOREPLAY lol this cud get u more in the mood 4 sex.
it sound like this guy is a giant perveted prick and he just wants to have sex with you.
if he doesn't wait untill your ready to have sex then dump him
and if u do have sex, make sure he wears a condom because unless u want a baby then good luck :)
Even ugly people get laid.
If your age 17 or younger, do yourself a favor and stick it out till youre 18.
It's not OMFG too far away and if he holds out till then, it'll be worth it to him.
If you two are even still together by then...
Using you.
it can be a difficult decision, but you have to remember that it's YOUR body and ultimately YOUR choice. you move at YOUR pace and no one else's.
AND THE FUTURE? DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE A FUTURE WITH HIM?
WHAT KIND OF PERSON IS HIM ? HIS FAMILY?
I THINK THAT YOU OUGHT TO CONSIDER ALL THIS, BEFORE HAVE SEX WITH SOMEBODY, .-
IS HE CLEAN? IS HE SICK? DO YOU HAVE PROVE THAT HE IS NOT INFECTED?
HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY; BE SMART GIRL AND THINK THINGS SEEING TO THE FUTURE.-
WHAT IF HE IS NOT THE RIGHT MAN? HAW ARE YOU GOING TO FRONT THE RIGHT MAN AFTER?
CERTAINLY , IS YOUR BODY AND YOUR DECISION, BUT IS THE RIGHT DECISION HAVE SEX FOR SEX?
IF HE IS INLOVED OF YOU AND YOU FROM HIM, MUST WAIT UNTIL CAN GET MARRIEGE.-
REMEBER, USUALY , AFTER DOING IT, YOUNG MANS FORGET OF ALL, AND GO TO OTHER GIRL FOR DO THE SAME, .-
AND YOU? WHERE YOU WILL BE STAY? FORGETTED?
HEY BE SMART AND BE SURE WHAT IS DOES HE WANTS, AND WHAT DO YOU WANT.-THINK BEFORE ACT.-
YOU DESERVE THE BEST NOT ONLY ONE THING PASSENGER.-YOU DESERVE NOT BE USED ONLY , YOU DESERVE BE LOVED AND LOVE , AND THAT MEANS IN A RIGHT WAY , GIVE TIME TO TIME AND BE HIS GIRLFRIEND UNTIL YOU BE SURE THAT YOU LOVE HIMM AND HE LOVES YOU.-
IT IS NOT HAPPEN NOTHING IF YO WAIT AND MAKE HIM WAIT, HE WILL BE MOORE INTERSTED, AND HE WILL APREACIATED YOU MOORE IF SAY NO I DONT WANT SEX YET TO HIM THAN MAKING SEX AND BEEING EASY FOR DO IT.-BE STRONG AND SET FEETS ON LAND.-BE SMART AND BUILD YOUR FUTURE AND HAPPINESS SINCE NOW.-