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Is It Normal?
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Is he trying to pick me up?
I'm in the twelfth grade,18 years old.I've been taking karate for the last few years,and I changed clubs ayear ago, and since then I've been training with a wholebunch of guys,mostly older than myself.The only other girls there are my 2 sisters, 13 and 14. There's this one guy,who's 44,that I usually train with,Ted. I'm pretty and slim,and Ted's been making remarks about the way i look almost ever since I met him.But recently,things changed--he seemsto be gettins a little physical with me--when we practice throws, he's always grabbing my waist,holding me too close to him for too long,and making a lot of comments like "I have a hard time training with you,'cause when I look at you, I start thinking about something else," or "Wow,you smell good.It almost makes me want to eat you," or "God,you look sexy when you fight." I'm starting to feel kinda uncomforatble,Idon't know how to react.At first I thought he might be kidding,but... What do you guys think? Is he crossing a line? How should I react? I'm not sure how to feel about all this... Is this normal? Should I just brush it off and laugh along, or take it seriously? Help me out, I really need some advice. Thanks a lot.
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Comments (8)
Shaka_Zulu (3938)
2006-10-05 05:44:51
omg. make it crystal clear you are not even remotely interested. he may be planning to rape you & he will know how you are able to defend yourself & will be prepared. i would advise to lodge a formal complaint & if he doesn't stop move karate classes. if he tries anything kick him in the nuts so hard they pop. i know you will be able to.
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-10-05 05:48:04
Yes it seems like he has the hots for you. You didnt say whether you liked him or not. If he steps over the line your karate wont help he will be able to beat you. He could render you unconscious and rape you. If you dont like him I suggest you change clubs very soon.
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Devar (2791)
2006-10-06 06:24:04
Take it seriusly channel your homophobic emotional anger and scream "renzuken" as you leap into the air and shoot a ball of energy at him that knocks him out in one hit then have some little kid say "flawless victory" in an old man voice :-)

*yes im bored*
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-10-06 11:47:01
Well you can laugh along now but if it goes any further tell him where to go.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-10-20 13:17:36
Change clubs if you can and don't tell anyone where you are going. If you can't change clubs, or it is inconvenient, and Ted's advances are unwelcome as you indicate, then do not train with him any longer. Fairly simple situation. If you spoke up from the get go, Ted's behaviors would likely have stopped. What you permit, you promote.
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roger49 (3711)
2006-10-20 14:20:15
Yes he is trying to pick you up. damn, you're naive, of course you are of consenting age, but if his advances are unwelcome you should train with someone else.
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Mimir2 (3348)
2006-10-20 14:25:16
Next time he does anything say "dont be pulling that homo shit on me, it gives me the creeps".
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niggorman09 (4308)
2007-05-24 23:50:35
Fuck him up, carve his ass up with a knife or shoot him in the balls, problem solved.
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