just do it
you dont have to tell him anything

hehe
hes a boy he will like it :D

but will people think im a slut?

why?
its your boyfriend

if you want to give him a bj remember that he has to be someone very special to you... if he has only been your bf for a short time, like a few months, i would advise against it. also your first bj its best to let the guy know well in advance when you want to do it... that way he can tidy up down stairs in preparation. lol. this will make the experience all the more enjoyable for you & for him. & the suspence will make you is the centre of his thoughts for some time.

Its up to you if you want to give him one. When you are cuddling and kissing and you feel him get hard just take it out and start wanking him then just get in a position to give him a blowjob. Heres the thing a 13yo boy will tell his mates and if word gets out people especially other girls will call you a slut. Remember this is only a sign of their imaturity and will be your first lesson in not letting what others think rule your life and affect what you do. You can only try and see it could go either way. I promise you if you gave me a blowjob I would not tell anyone cross my heart and hope to die. Hope this helps you let us know how it went

i dont really think u should do it...u could do it if u want but like cab said"if word gets out people especially other girls will call you a sl*t."

your only 13 cant you wait?!?!?!

wat risks will i be taking

you would be risking having a penis in your mouth.

ROFLMAO!

why would u wanna give gobbie at 13... you are depriving your self of your own INNOCENCE... dont do what other girls tell you to do...

but yet again, its your life, all we learn thru our mistakes... are u doing it coz u want to ? or c0z you think it will make your bf happy ?

just do it or u can dump him an give me 1 insted

You also risk getting a gobful of spunk.

are you sure you aren't the 8th grade slut?

8th f***ing grade?!

Just tell him u want to do it, and if he tells anyone about it, u'll cut it off (he wont tell a soul). Enjoy.

do it who cares if ur a sl*t.Be proud. and when a girl says something to you take it with pride.

just it dont matter

first ask him what would he think of a bj..

yah honestly just fucking wait im 16 and i know for a fact little 13 year old guys will just run off and tell their little bitch ass friends "tehe she sucked my pepe yesterday" so just wait

yeah im a fifteen year old girl i gave my first blowjob at age 12 and after i did it i put my hands on his lips and got close to his face and shyly gave him a quick soft shhhh and then kisses him lightly

Wow, it's the 21st century...

and we are STILL using the "slut" label?

Errrmmm... sex is NORMAL.

Word to the wise: Blow him. If any of the other girls at school (probably lesbians) give you any grief, pour Nair into their shampoo bottles, during gym class. Works like a charm. : )

Blow his fucking brains out (not literally)

Try position # 69. Very efficient.

Dont do it, A chick in my class did it and the next day it was the talk of all the school

in my school, at least 85% of the girls have given a blow job. we are in 9th grade. its not that big a deal.

no u wouldnt be a slut, hes ur bf, no problem.

if people call u a slut, punch em or tell em to fuck off, its not a big deal

ask him about it first, if he says yeah be like hellz yeah! lets get it on already! wut were u waiting for?!

simple as that

Just kneel down, unzip his fly, pull his dick out and suck.

That's how you tell him you might be interested.

And if you're worried he'll tell everyone, threaten not to give him one ever again.

Trust me, given a choice between having a girlfreind who'll suck his dick at the drop of a hat, and being dumped by said girl, he'll keep his mouth shut.

UGh 13?
I see a whorebag in the making...

I go it; tell him you've never given a guy a blowjob before, and let him sujest you try it.

pfff.
i'm 13 and im in 7th grade and i gave 17 other guys blow jobs and i like being callled a sluttt.:D

i guess you could ask him first.....

Don't do it if you really don't want to, but if so ask him in advance, he'd probably say yes.
If he's any sort of worthwile person, he won't tell if you ask him to.

YOU ARE A SLUT AND PROBABLY A SKINNY HATING SLUT. STOP THAT AND GO TO EATING HIGH FRUCTOSE SNACKS AND NOT THOSE NASTY BOTY THINGIES.

Just not twinkies.

i wish i had you has a gf when i was 13

me 2 lol!

no wait, i got sucked off when i was 8

measmyself, you gave a blowjob to 17 men and you are just 13, awesome. I don't believe you though. If true, go girl

Shit i wish i had a 13 year old girl giving me head

well if it gets out then they might, depends really

it depends do people at your school also get/give bjs?

Your only course of action at your current pathetic pre-pubescent age is masterbation.

The absolute first thing he will do when he gets away from you is tell his friends who will then spread the word. The entire school including teachers will have heard about it within 2 days and all of the other girls will think you are a slut and the boys will look at you like they can get some.

ffs i forgot to look at the date.. stop drudging up old posts and find something better to do people

You're only thirteen. I think you might want to wait until you are sure you are ready before you get into sexual situations.

Men (and I use that term loosely) here...

They throw around the term slut, skank and whore - but their ain't a One of them who'd turn down a BJ from your average 8th grader.

Me, I gave my first BJ when I was 11 (TRUTH! - then, uhm, nothing at all until I was fifteen) and the guy was 14 - he loved it and kept his mouth closed (NOT on Me, sadly, what is WITH guys!) in the hopes of getting more.

Proceed with caution. boys love their lables - makes them feel like men.

Tobra

heh watsup with gits these days?

wow, yeah you're a bit young for that . . . my first oral encounter was at 14 and both the girl and I regretted it, neither of us were ready . . .
then again, each year, the kids get more and more precocious and sexually mature . . . it's almost frightening . . .
did I say almost?
I mean yes really it is scary as fuck

Well, well, well... starHAG can't get any, so she's trying to dictate other people's sex lives.... AGAIN.

Stop calling people sluts, you sad bitch. Get a fucking life and stop ruining the one pleasurable thing left on this rotten planet!

Actually, boys/men aren't the problem. It's women like stargirl who spread around the "slut" moniker. Guys repeat it, because they have been brainwashed by old, bitter hags, who have told them that sex is bad & that they should be ashamed of it.

Guys love sex, but like many females, they feel guilty after engaging in it, due to our massively repressed society. I have a very detailed theory regarding the origins of the "slut" label. I plan on posting a special topic about it.

Starhag, you moron. There is no such thing as a slut.

According to October, men love their labels... looks as if you love them even more.

Again, you make up things that I have not said, and attempt to, basically, ague with yourself. Who said anything about "advertising or bragging", you kook?

I'd also like to add that you're very gullible & immature. You have based your opinion of my life on.... of all things, my username. How stupid can you be? Really.

As for "your man", I seriously doubt one exists. Few men find dreadlocks.... hot. And then, there's your intolerable, bossy personality. Geeessh... no real man (unless he's totally spineless) would put up with your shit for more than five minutes.

And regarding the matter of the 13 year old, I don't think it's appropriate for you to call her a slut, just because she is experiencing a very NATURAL desire to be with a boy. You COULD have said something more constructive... but OOOOH NOOOOOO, the sex-phobic in you couldn't resist dragging out that OLD, tired word... employed by gold-bricking women worldwide (and that IS what the slut thing is all about; MONEY).

In your mind (and the minds of many fucked-up women), sex has value. P*ssy is worth money & effort, and women who "give it away" are viewed as a threat. Women who see sex for what it TRULY is (a mutually beneficial exchange of affection) are your worst fucking nightmare. LOL After all, why would ANY man pay for your dinner/housing/car/etc., so that he may get in to your crusty pants.... when he could easily get much better sex from a woman who loves it as much as he does, and doesn't expect him to pay out the nose for it???

Yes indeed. Women like me are a threat to money-grubbing, lesbian wh0res like YOU.