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Attraction to my freinds, PLEASE HELP
I'm totally open at school and stuff about being Bisexual, I mean people in year 7 know and I'm in year 9. I hang around with generally year 10s and 11s and well... mainly 4 people I like and I just don't want to make a mistake leading to messing up our freindships. One of which is Called James and well, I stayed over his house once and we made out and felt each other, but I made the mistake of telling one person who I thought I could trust and so only recently me and James have started talking again, I really like him in that way aswell but when I even go to hug him he sometimes just pushes me away. My other freind Grant is a really nice guy, he's in year 10 like James, I even asked Grant out but it resulted in a rejection, I do accept that he's straight but I honestly don't want to feel this way about him just in case I end up doing something stupid. Lucy in year 11, she's so awesome, I'm into My metal and me and her share an obsession with Marilyn Manson, we have lots in common but I know for a fact she wouldn't want anything to do with me in that way, we're really good freinds though, I feel that if we are talking and having a laugh she's sorta forcing her laughs a bit so I don't feel "offended". Steph again in year 11, I apparently scared her because at the time I first started to talk to her she was really down, today I caught her upset, so obviously being one of her best freinds, I went to see if I could help, we hugged and she was crying on my shoulder, I told her I love her, she must've thought I meant as a freind but I did in fact mean I love her in the Relationship/sexual way, I don't want to make anyone angry/uncomfortable when they're with me or around me, please help.

Marky
Thanks
Xxx
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-10-19 19:01:04
Sounds like you need to grow up a bit. Its OK to tell people about your sexuality but you are not yet mature enough to put it into practice the fact you told someone about something you did shows this. I suggest you hang around people your own age and stop looking at evryobe you know as a potential sex partner.
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roger49 (3711)
2006-10-19 19:58:01
Cab is right on and serious for once. If you look at people sexually, it's easy to make them uncomfortable, so just try to take it easy and don't expect anything like that to come from your friendships. Just wait, the people you're friends with don't seem interested in that sort of relationship, so maybe find new people or just wait.
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-10-20 05:55:15
Cab is right on and serious for once

Roger Ill have you know I have been voted by several people on this site as the most serious poster here. So eat me bitch
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roger49 (3711)
2006-10-21 01:55:39
sorry cab I may have been thinking of mofo or someone else
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Hojohto221 (4503)
2006-11-27 19:50:44
Now, this is a story all about how
My life got flipped-turned upside down
And I liked to take a minute
Just sit right there
I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel Air

In west Philadelphia born and raised
On the playground was where I spent most of my days
Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool
And all shootin some b-ball outside of the school
When a couple of guys
Who were up to no good
Startin makin trouble in my neighborhood
I got in one lil fight and my mom got scared
She said 'You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in bel Air'

I begged and pleaded with her day after day
But she packed my suite case and send me on my way
She gave me a kiss and then she gave me my ticket.
I put my walkman on and said, 'I might as well kick it'.

First class, yo this is bad
Drinking orang juice out of a champagne glass.
Is this what the people of Bel-Air Living like?
Hmmmmm this might be alright.

But wait I hear the pricey booze, wine all that
Is Bel-Air the type of place they send this cool cat?
I don't think sow
I'll see when I get there
I hope they're prepared for the prince of Bel-Air

Well, the plane landed and when I came out
There was a dude who looked like a cop and yelled my name out
I ain't trying to get arrested
I just got here
I sprang with the quickness like lightening, disappeared

I whistled for a cab and when it came near
The license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror
If anything I can say this cab is rare
But I thought 'Now forget it' - 'Yo homes to Bel Air'

I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8
And I yelled to the cabbie 'Yo homes smell ya later'
I looked at my kingdom
I was finally there
To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air
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vanillaface (5313)
2007-01-17 12:46:20
Another addition to the evidence vault for my 'all men named Mark are homosexual' theory. It's guaranteed to be true.
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ilms_cumming_near_you (5556)
2007-02-17 03:51:26
@: vanillaface
vannilaface O_O
the only mark i know is a homosexual
think you are on to something there
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Riley (6694)
2007-03-18 01:23:16
U mean that your 9 years old or what I diden't get that part? If thats what u said then your not old enough to look at your friends or anyone for that matter sexually.
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-03-31 00:08:46
Keep your sexuality to yourself until you finish school. Thats all kids do in school nowadays, talk about eachother's love lives and spread rumours. Kids can be really cruel. I know it's exciting to have things happen to you like relationships and stuff, but you should keep it discrete until you get out of that enviornment.
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mscena5469 (7147)
2007-04-04 01:16:28
@: Riley
no he or she means 9th grade I think
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WankZillah (7420)
2007-04-11 21:41:50
Tis' a he.
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The_Enigma (9017)
2007-07-02 08:32:32
Dude, i think you should leave Steph, Grant and the other one alone, It seems they are only there for you as a friend.

James, on the other hand, seems like he likes you too, just he wont be affectionate in public.

Hope i helped a bit.
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WHYme (8965)
2007-07-27 16:05:31
You'll find out all through life that people like to talk about sex. Male and Feemale. Both brag to their friends about who they have banged. So be prepared if your a girl it is gonna get around you are spreading them legs. If your a guy every girl will know how big and how good you are!
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