how old are you? and how much experience do you have, how much does he have?

I'm 17 and i have had a lot of experience so has he.

Can you cum when you masterbate? Have you tried slow deep penetration? Try the missonary position with your feet flat on the bed and hold him really close to you so that your cl*toris is stimulated by his body and just grind him with slow circular strokes.That means move your hips and a**.If that doesn't work you might need to upgrade to a man that knows what to do.

well i mean i have never came in my life never not even when i do it and everything seems right i mean he has a big thing and sometimes i do get horny but i never get so horny to cum. and probably did everything i think its just me. :(

Have you tried visual stimulation (porno)? Try to tap into your freakiest thoughts. Envision yourself with the hottest dude that you can think of. You might have to release the beast within you. Your not a prude your just a little delayed. You really have my sympathy.

i tried porn too but i guess ill try thinking of some of my fantasies hopefully ill get something but i think if i did cum atleast once id feel happier and more excited with me and my bf relationship. thanks!

didnt you get pregnant chloe?

and what about

...ok I'm 15 now and turning 16 in a...

yes i did once but it was a miscarriage i'm glad im not pregnant i don't think im ready

Have him use his tongue . . .

what about that

chloe: I'm 17 and i have had a lot of experience so has he.

chloe: ...ok I'm 15 now and turning 16 in a...

yes i am 15 turnin 16 but i thought id probably get more advice if i put 17

and i had my miscarriage at age 13 goin 14

LIES!LIES!LIES! Some of us really try to give legitimate advice. Scratch my previous advice because now I'm thinking that you can't cum because you've overexposed, overused and abused you little coochie.

say what you will... i don't mind

you mean climax, am i right, b/c if you are thinking cum - as in "skwirt" something, not all girls can acheave that

Some woman don't ever orgasm, dont worry about it

It is unfortunate but some women are non orgasmic or from your posts you may have done some damage due to miscarriage at young age this is an indication you may have some problems there see a doctor

dont worry too much about it, sex is not only about getting an orgasm! just have fun and enjoy, and forget about your orgasm for a while. oh, and by the way, I was 21 when I had my first little orgasm... almost not noticable, and within 6 months from that, already turning 22, I had my first real one.
So like I said, just try to not focus on it for a while.

my gf cant cum unless i eat her out.

well wgat about that girl next door, eddie?

what*

I have the same problem.
I cam cum when I'm masturbating.
When I'm rubbing my clit with my fingers.
But during sex or if I'm fingering myself, I can't cum.
I'm very experienced as well, and I've had sex plenty of times.
Good sex, might I add.
So I know it's not the guy.
I don't know what to do, and it confuses the shit out of me.

I read somewhere that if you're stressed or worried even just a little bit about something before or during sex, that in your brain interferes with you having an orgasm.

That's not my problem, I just thought I'd add that in.

last night i finally came!!! and it was my boyfriends birthday! so that was my present to him! it was my first time and i loved it!!!!!