Just be open with them, watever u think in ur head speak outload immediately, That helps, trust me.

Take a deep breath, and try to relax, don't worry about the future, just think about the here and now.

A lot of people find it hard to start a conversation but at least you can keep a conversation going once it starts and when I meet girls I immediately think of them as sex partners so theres nothing wrong with you at all

im just like you. except im a guy.

go with whoever you actually like dont just go with them for the sake of having a boyfriend

yeah i agree with Princess, plus f*ck buddies are better.

its only natural for us to try & fit every guy into our image of our mr. right. you are luckier than most. i can't even talk to them if i don't start the conversation! -.-'

"and deep down i know i am not really attracted to them"

Doesnt that mean you are lesbian?

Overanalysis leads to paralysis. Lower your expectations and to echo the wise words that Roger listed, DO NOT worry about the future. Focus on the present, and relax. You seem very uptight and worry needlessly. Guys are nothing better than you, you seem to be feeling inferior or interpreting your presence that way and it comes across. Just be yourself, be polite, friendly, but never needy and have fun!!!! If you want to initiate or approach a guy that too if perfectly fine. Guys will be taken back and impressed by that, it takes nerve.

Just dont worry about it LIVE 4 THE MOMENT!

Say wotevas on ur mind =]

its only simple conversation, speak your mind, dont lie at all, and be cool about it, because a conversation doesnt mean a relationship, but over time it can, just think that that conversation brings you closer to the guy

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even if you know that they are not for ever u need some practice so go for it