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Is It Normal?
What do you think?
is this real?? what to do w/this relationship??
ok, i'll try to keep it short.
i'm a guy, mid 20's, that has a relationship with this girl(mid 20's too, first known lesbian. i am her first guy), who claims that when we have sex, it hurts her(an important fact is that she is asian and i am latino). i believe it could happen the first times but not after about 5 months of doing it. if i do it "the usual way" it "hurts her". i have to be extremely careful and soft and we almost end up just masturbating each other and that is practically what we mostly do.
the point is that almost every time we have sex i end up apologizing and we don't talk for a while but at the end she will look for me and honestly i will look for her. i hate this thing on apologizing every time i have had it.
has this happend to someone else? any comments please go ahead...
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Comments (6)
hmm.. this havent happened to me but..i've read somewher that some girls/women would feel pain at the you know where when they have sex.. she's totally normal.. nothing to do with the fact that she's homo.. ;)
and yeah one more thing.. try living with the fact that it hurts her when you "you know".. if not.. dump her..
I have heard that asian girls are small but really like sex. do you give her oral first that may help apart from that I dont know
Its probably because its an emotional thing to a girl, shes scared your gonna hurt her but im sure she understands it isnt actually your fault. try just not aplogising
Maybe she's not moist enough before you try to get it in. Try what cab says and get some oral going or some gentle foreplay(fingerwork) if it dont work try some lube. KY jelly is not just for ass bandits.
i hope i don't have that problem. ^^
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