is this real?? what to do w/this relationship??
ok, i'll try to keep it short.
i'm a guy, mid 20's, that has a relationship with this girl(mid 20's too, first known lesbian. i am her first guy), who claims that when we have sex, it hurts her(an important fact is that she is asian and i am latino). i believe it could happen the first times but not after about 5 months of doing it. if i do it "the usual way" it "hurts her". i have to be extremely careful and soft and we almost end up just masturbating each other and that is practically what we mostly do.
the point is that almost every time we have sex i end up apologizing and we don't talk for a while but at the end she will look for me and honestly i will look for her. i hate this thing on apologizing every time i have had it.
has this happend to someone else? any comments please go ahead...