No this is not normal. You should go find a differnt man. Someone who really wants to give you some pleasure some great orgasms. You should be cumming all over the place.

I left my last boyfriend for the same reason.

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and sex was awesome in the beginning. Then it became a routine (almost like a chore). So, I started being bored with our whole relationship. I didn't want to give up on our relationship so I bought myself a toy. I let him watch me use it and let him use it on me. He wan't it all the time after that. If that's out of thequestion for you I would reccomend being a little more aggresive. Why don't you initiate the sex and then tell him what you want to do to him and how you want to do it. Most men like being taken control of, some of the time.

A lot of men are just plain no fun. My last boyfriend and I only had sex five times in the six months we dated, and it was all I could take becuase he was so boring and awful. I nearly dumped him every time we fucked. Unless he's otherwise perfect, and you think he can possibly be turned around, then start looking around, or you'll just be unsatisfied.

Your Boyfriend is GAY!

Sex should be fun interesting and should feel gooood, other wise its not fun.