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WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON???

ok...me and this guy have been together for like 8 months now and things are starting to change. like we broke up the other day and got back together. we broke up because he asked if i was unfaithful b/c a bunch of private numbers on my phone and i got mad b/c i dont think that cheating is right...i really hate people who cant decide wat they want. any ways yea so then we got back together...and everything is great... but now since a few days have passed...hes got REAL agressive with me. not in a hot kinky way either. he is playing around but he smacks me and grabs me by the back of the neck. and shit like that.
Hes even made the comment "shut the fuck up....dont even talk if your gonna say something stupid" and i ask him why he is doing this now...he came back with a im treating you like you did me the first few months of us being together. and i dont remember abusing him...i remember playing around with him but never saying any thing like that to him? WIll everyone please help me? i really love this guy and i wanna be with him but how can a set things straight without losing him? Please please help me.
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Comments (6)
Aww chick, you got to tell him to change or your going for good i know you love him and its hard but dont take this from him! x
Find a guy who isn't abusive. If you have any self respect you will not hang around someone who mistreats you. Breaking up and being faithful are terms for married people or those who have been together for years. Your relationship is temporary and best terminated.
I think it's time for you to move on, this guy doesn't seem mature enough to handle the relationship. Find a guy who doesn't abuse you and trusts you.
I would say this guy has violent tendancies you may love him but I would suggest you get rid of him real quick this will only get worse if you let it continue believe me
two words..."Whips and chains" (well it's three,But you could vent out any emotion on him.)
break up with the abusive bitch