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mother...dont know how to handle this one
my mother, 48 years old died in january 2004. it will be 3 years in january. i dont know. its actually been better after her death. she was kind of abusive, but then again, i am young and dont want to sound ignorant and say that i hate her. she raised me, but made my life miserable sometimes. i have tourettes syndrome, and one time she made fun of it. my cousins would abuse the f**k out of me whenever we went to michigan out of ignorance and when i told her, she would tell me to shut up. i know i have tourettes, but i really cant help it. she would get my father to take me out physically when she couldnt do it on her own. she would also always boss my dad around. i dont know if i should hate my mother, but does this just go with being young? or do i have a reason to hate her?
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There is nothing to really handle other than to move on with your life. Don't let the past prevent you from moving on. Many people have bad, unhappy childhoods or painful experiences and it prevents them from living healthy and building strong relationships. Seek out professional help if you find yourself spending excessive time on negative thoughts. Let go of the past, look forward and enjoy life. Good luck to you.
Parents are tough. I'm young male. My mum was a tyranical bitch and is only less abusive now cos I'm larger and more difficult to control and my dad has always been a coward. I hate them a lot of the time. Maybe seek out some counselling in your area. I don't think your bad or immature for hating sometimes, if you aren't able to express emotions that's when problems start. GL
In life, you don't necesarily like everyone you meet. This is also the case with those you are saddled with as "family". Though HATE may be a strong word to use, you are under no obligation to like or approve of your mother. She was just a human being, as we all are. We all have our faults. Try to remember the good and let go of the bad.
mymommaisawesomeiloveherandyouarealittlebitchfornotlovinghernomatterwhatshedid
You have good reason to hate her my stepmother was a cunt as well when she dies I am going to piss on her grave maybe you should do the same
man she sounds like a real bitch, i know child abuse happens, but parents shouldnt do that. in my view, she is not a real mother, and every anniversary of her death, you should have a nice party reminding you of when your life got better
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