ok so im a virgin and my bf and i are ready to have sex....., but theres a problem. im still a virgin and it doesnt fit. is there any thing i can do to idk, i guess get looser??
It will fit, it's not that it doesn't fit, it just seems like it. You're probably so tensed up with thinking, 'It doesn't fit!!' that you're tensing up muscles without even realising, or muscles you aren't even aware of. you need to relax, completely. get into the moment and go other stuff beforehand, massage eachother, and no worrying!
ok, number one: RELAX!
number two: It's going to hurt like a bitch. Just let it happen. Let him keep pushing it in, it WILL go in. it just really hurts.
Why your so tight is probably because your hymen hasn't broken yet or in other words "popping the cherry" it's a small circular opening that in all women rips eventually. When your having sex just let him insert it and when you feel the great pain you'll know that the worst of it is over and it will start to feel good after that.
Dang ya dont worry dont have sex with him that kinda shows your not readdy ya ive had that same experience im still a virgin and me and my ex were ready to do it as well we were young and in love but i didnt have sex with him cause no matter what we tryed or how far my legs spread his thing just couldnt get it to fit in but im glad i didnt have sex with him cause i now know im not ready not with him and not at this age
p.s. im still in love with him and he's still in love with me we just cant get it to work but thats ok he wont ever change for me
I now believe that if you make love to someone, you are marrying that person in the eyes of God. Not having a ceremony is nothing, that is just a materialistic technisism invented by society.
What Im saying is, be sure you love the guy, if you are not sure, then is easy, you dont love him.
And girl, it does fit, it is made for a freaking baby to go throught, I bet you bf penis is not the size of a baby head is it? If it is, you probably are in serious trouble.
Are you all retarded?
number two: It's going to hurt like a bitch. Just let it happen. Let him keep pushing it in, it WILL go in. it just really hurts.
check out this link:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_lubricant
p.s. im still in love with him and he's still in love with me we just cant get it to work but thats ok he wont ever change for me
What Im saying is, be sure you love the guy, if you are not sure, then is easy, you dont love him.
And girl, it does fit, it is made for a freaking baby to go throught, I bet you bf penis is not the size of a baby head is it? If it is, you probably are in serious trouble.