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Why do white girls go out with black boys? why?
Hi, my name is john and I'm 17. i live in London. i wont say that i am very good looking, but i don't think i am ugly. my hair looks alright, i do have some bling. i always smell nice, i try to buy expensive stuff, cloths, aftershave, shoes, etc.. But for some reason in my school, many of the really good-looking girls like black boys. these girl are pretty smart, they have posh families and all that and also they don't smock weed. what i don't understand is that why do they go out with these ugly people. what do they see in them? i am not racist at all and i have nothing against them, but to be honest they are not good looking, well not all of them, the ones in our school. and still these girl like them. why? these girls are really nice and they are not slags at all. they can get really good looking white boys if they wanted. there was this nice girl in my school, and we were kinda close, and i was going to ask her out, but on her birthday, she didn't invite me ,but invited some really really ugly black boy from our school, and then people told me that they kissed and then they started going out with each other. Why? i am sorry if it was to long, but please help me out and tell why, if you know the answer.
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It could be that those of color approach them while the caucasian guys don't. Girls have traditionally not been in the aggresive mode in starting relationships, it is the boys that do the chasing and the hunting so to speak. Caucasian guys are often not aggresive enough from what I've observed. It is also possible these girls simply have a preference, it's not unsual to have a stronger interest for a certain race, just a personal choice, nothing wrong with it. Hope this helps.
Black boys brush their teeth and have larger Johnsons on average.

Start with brushing yer breaf and bathing.

Get some FUBU quick, niggwa.
It might be because of how few there are around in white societies added with some hollywood created image.
It certainly aint for the strength of the societies they form nor their historical intellectual victories.

Also, in white societies there is a fashionwave going around stating that men and women are the same, something which leaves men confused about what is expected of them and black men with an edge.
Loads of reasons. Rebelling, opposites attract, Black guys more mature, more immature, more aggressive, more anarchist, just different, still a taboo, there may be some genetic reason to intergrate gene pool. Whatever this world is fucked up.
There probably just trying them out to see what theyre like while theyre young it will pass
you ARE racist...u probably just notice it more when girls go for black guys but not when they go for white guys. if you pay attention equally u will probably find that most white pppl tend to stick to their own kind which is fucked up...it shouldnt fucking matter
definitly racist. the girl you like picked him cos of who he was not what he was.if you concentrated less on outer appearance & more on personality you might have stood a chance. i feel sorry for you. you are about to be trapped in a very self destructive thinking partern.
u r trying too hard...
I don't think ppl should rag on white people for being racist all the time, there is a helluvalot of racism within non-white races against their own.
racist or not, who is anyone to judge you for that matter, you are putting too much emphasis on this girl. You are young and therefore probably don't know what love is. Love is sticking by someone even when its tough. If she sticks by you then she loves you. If you stick by her, then you love her. If you stick by each other, then you are in love. Sticking by someone also means letting them go if that is what they want or need. Therefore, you are treating this girl like some kind of possession. Be friends with a girl, appreciate and understand her - then ask her out. Otherwise, you may practice some sexual promiscuity with random people. And who knows, maybe thats all she is doing with him. Would you go out with her now? Why don't you ask her why she kissed and went out with him after you become friends?
It sounds like you are racist. Some white guys like black girls, some black guys like white girls. Some white girls like black guys, some black girls like white guys. And sometimes black guys and white guys like each other and black girls and white girls like each other. But most of the time races tend to their own. Not because they hate or are prejudice but becase that it is what they want, understand, and relate to.
Now, this is a story all about how
My life got flipped-turned upside down
And I liked to take a minute
Just sit right there
I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel Air

In west Philadelphia born and raised
On the playground was where I spent most of my days
Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool
And all shootin some b-ball outside of the school
When a couple of guys
Who were up to no good
Startin makin trouble in my neighborhood
I got in one lil fight and my mom got scared
She said 'You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in bel Air'

I begged and pleaded with her day after day
But she packed my suite case and send me on my way
She gave me a kiss and then she gave me my ticket.
I put my walkman on and said, 'I might as well kick it'.

First class, yo this is bad
Drinking orang juice out of a champagne glass.
Is this what the people of Bel-Air Living like?
Hmmmmm this might be alright.

But wait I hear the pricey booze, wine all that
Is Bel-Air the type of place they send this cool cat?
I don't think sow
I'll see when I get there
I hope they're prepared for the prince of Bel-Air

Well, the plane landed and when I came out
There was a dude who looked like a cop and yelled my name out
I ain't trying to get arrested
I just got here
I sprang with the quickness like lightening, disappeared

I whistled for a cab and when it came near
The license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror
If anything I can say this cab is rare
But I thought 'Now forget it' - 'Yo homes to Bel Air'

I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8
And I yelled to the cabbie 'Yo homes smell ya later'
I looked at my kingdom
I was finally there
To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air
Let him stick it in your pooper!
well first of all you definetly are racist. and are you gay? because it sure sounds like it by the way you are rating these black boys. and why do you hate so much? if the girls like them then let them. and to tell you the truth black boys are cuter. and it shouldn't matter to you who their choice is. they might like their personalities better than yours. and yea get a life you hater
white people should get ragged on for being rascist because they started rascism in my eyes and up to this day there are still oads of rascists, KKK, BNP, well known groups people still support them. Very few rascist black people out there and thats the truth.
I'm a white girl and i have always been attracted to black boys just because i think they are more attracting and more mature than white boys maybe the girls in your school want to go out with someone more outgoing and adventures like they are. I dont know what kinds of black guys you have there but i like the ones with the durags and hats i would perfer the Thugs but idk what the girls in your school like!
You Are RACIST buddy!!! if they like black guys and not you then you obviosly have to find a girl who likes you!! DUH!!!
u stupid fucking white bastards.lemme tell u something u don't know.even ur white girls tell us that you all got little peanut dicks.they need the big dicks dat go hard like jordan and we blacks gat it.problem is when they go black, they never go back.we gat game to spit.they love our style and yall aint got shit, so keep on catchin' feelings.me and my niggas fuck ur white girls and pass 'em right back to u....U RACIST BITCH!!!
You are psyco, crazy boy.
You are only slave, ugly black boy....hahaha
black people,, go back to your country, Africa.
Me and all my family going all the way back to the sons & daughters of the American revolution have all had blonde hair and blue or green eyes. It is MY race and I'm proud to be of my linage.

My nearly 13 year old daughter has her first real crush and on a black boy. At first I thought it was just a phase. But this kid has hounded her relentlessly for near a year now. He treats her like a queen, and he doesn't even get discouraged when she tries to shake him off. She is finely giving in to him. He's a smart kid and knows what he wants. Her school is 40% black 40% Spanish/other and 20 % white. She is constantly being exposed to black culture and thinks being black is cool.

I'm not a racist, but, I want to have white grandchildren. This is a poor start. Yeah, I know I'm in for much more teen crap to come yet. Her brother did the same thing. He liked black music, sports guys, and anything black on TV and movies. He liked black girls or half black ones. Real skanks too! He choose all black friends all who were all into some kind of trouble. He is 17 years old and was tried as an adult for selling crack with his gangsta friends who ratted him out. My step son swore over and over that his friends were so great. Right! They got him started doing B&E's first and they were caught and then weed, no big deal, but then selling crack. They gave him two years in a rehab after he did 5 months county jail time. Most black's kids near here are from poor families and run wild.

I've never had to be racist, but what the fuck! I'm not going to let her do the same thing her brother did. First she's too young to date even and needs to focus on school and family. She still has a puppy love with our pet dog & cat and wants so badly attention now from a boy. This boy gives her all his attention and she eats it up. You know how girls get a bad reputation and I want to protect her in every way from all things bad. I can't supervise her at school or tell her how to feel inside. We talk very much and she has a great relationship with her mom and I. We are very understanding. We caught her lying for the first time about this kid and that isn't our little girl! The more we try to discourage it, the more she will want to go black? What do we do?

I might add if she was 18 and in love with a black person, we'd try to support them 100%. No pun intended.
They o it to make pretty little hafies lke myself..lol jk
Well if hes a good kid and treats her right..why should you care?
for an asian person to be talking yall r all MUTANTS. yall don't even look like normal people. asian ppl r strange they dog and cat nobody like you ppl anyway your only good for technology
Your not racist?You sure couldv'e fooled me.You seriously have problems.You make yourself seem so desperate.No wonder she went out with the African American."I have some Bling" Omg.Stfu. You have a disguisting view on people that arent white.And you have some nerve calling African Americans ugly.Next time think before you open your rasict dirty mouth.
1. you are not the girl so thats none of your business.......stay away from that racist mentality!!! if you think those black boys are ugly or better than the white kids.....ask youself why they went out with those beautiful girls.....from my view, the beauty is in the eye of the beholder....meaning those black boys are handsome. Finally ask youself this....why dint you get a chance to date those girls...you may be very ugly yourself, actually uglier so dont call other people ugly!!!!!.......
africa's a continent, not a country you stupid-ass racist bitch. go fuck yourself
yea why do u think she didnt invite u,its becos u are an ass.mehn the gal needs a real guy, not an ass,i dont think u are racist but ass
please i love u 4 ur comment .just leave that ass
u fuck u.if we arent ere,this country will suck
What the FUCK are you talking about? There's very few racist black people out there? I am a racist, and I hate it, but it's because of double standards. If you don't know what I mean (which I suppose you don't because you're too ignorant to pay attention to your surroundings), say cracker or honky within ear shot of a white guy. What do you expect to happen? Nothing, because if we do something we get nailed for being racist. What happens when he says nigger or coon within ear shot of you? You try to fight him, but you don't get nailed for being a racist, he does. Why is it that MOST NIGGERS ARE RACIST? It's because your people are raised on hate. To hate the white man. That with white people around you'll never get a job. That all white people are racist. FUCK YOU, YOU FUCKING RACIST NIGGER BITCH. IT'S PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO FORCE PEOPLE LIKE ME TO BE A RACIST AND HATE BEING ONE.
My last comment was directed toward Mesmerize.
i'm 54 yrs old w/m/divorced 3 times .. i see so many black men with white women now days never see black women with white women . i think its mostly to get attention . we have a new employee at work shes a young white girl nice looking nice body was showing 5 inches of thong until management shut her down she likes rap music and guess what i'm betting i know what else she likes and i don't even know her name but i bet i'm right its the big thing now days . in the news now days theyre saying only whites are racist what a bunch of crap .. someday on judgement day i'll stand before GOD and i'll say i tried to treat people no matter what color the same but i hated rap music i hated prison jeans pulled down saying i'm available and i wouldn't do black man seconds . don't taze me bro .
Ive wondered this before, what is it exactly that these white girls see in black guys. Lets face facts here i mean the facts of life, white people are better looking then black people, you've got these white girls and guys who have all there facial features perfect and in place( the good looking ones that is ) and then you have these black guys who have big wide gorilla noses, fat lips, big wide eyes that are to far apart and there horrible greasy hair that u cant do anything with unless u shave it all off.. personally i think the reason girls go for black lads is because thay want to try something new because after all you hear white girls talk here and there about how they got with black guys, and girls responses are always "what was that like?". Because its frowned apon in away when you think about sex girls seem to want that dirty adventure of something out of the ordenary. If girls was as clean cut as they used to be a fair few years ago, i think all they would want is a nice relationship with a nice white lad. Some girls just go through that faise but it never seems to be long term, we always seem to marry the white girls in the end because they know were the best bet long term and the bad boy faise they see in black guys wear off. Im not racist one bit i have black friends and dont see them differently because of there skin colour but because of the attitude that comes with them.
SAME HERE AT MY SCHOOL BUT I HAVE NO PROBLEM IM BLACK LOL WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WORK OUT YOU NEED TO COMPETE WITH THEM WHEN YOU BITCH IT MAKES
YOU LOOK LIKE ONE
YOUR A GOOD MOM BUT IF YOU TRY TO BAN HER FROM BLACK BOYS YOUR ONLY STARTING A FOREST FIRE
It's fashionable(due to MTV/ popularity of rap), to date outside of your race, as well as maybe they just prefer them?
robertac (9337)- it doesn't make you racist because you prefer to have white grandchildren.
If you realy love or even like this girl you may have to let her go! If she dosnt like you like that then theres nothing you can do its her choice. Be her friend an mabe take it from there!! Trust me i chased after a guy for a year an a half then i had to let him go for the sake of my heart not breaking heart!! I now know that he likes me but I dont like him anymore like that!!!! Oh an may i just add that there is nothing wrong with dating a black boy!!! Im dating a black boy an i happen to be white, there is absolutly nothing wrong with dating out of race!!! If someone love another person race or age shouldnt matter at all!!!!!! well hope i helped!!
OMG yeah im a blackk girl and most ov the comments ive seen are proper racsit mann
stop moaoning u shud feel sorry for us blk gurl cause all the mann keep leaving us for white gurls just cause where cleaner white pppl are easier to gett and that what blk boiis love but its not right i aint going out wivv a whitte boii just cause off themm blk manzz discracing the blk nationn p.s that person who rotee blk ppl have gorrila noses i hope u get fucking sott up ur wizzle ass !!!
people don't like change but people like what's different. A white girl may like a new "flavor". Think about it, do you eat spaghetti every nite of your life??? I am black, shoot i'm brown--but that's another story, and i don't see a problem with who anyone dates. Some of the best things on earth were created from things that were mixed--chocolate milk, mixed drinks, etc.
People are gonna hate regardless...whether you date in your race or not. Try not to hate the person but respect their decision...i can see your frustration though. Just remember you can't change people, for better of for worse, until they want to change....
people just need to stop hatin' on people's choices...black women, stop hatin' on black men for dating white girls if they happy; the same goes for black men, stop hatin' on black women who like white men; black men are endangered species and they are dying off fast and as a black man, i am afraid of what the future brings...how you gonna take something that ain't yours?? just b/c a person is your race doesn't mean that he is "yours" let's grow up people and look at qualities and not race...but enthnicity and values...challenge yourself...one love...
basically, there are not enough black men to go around...so get used to interracial dating....and increased competition....man up people...you gotta go after what you want in life...
EVERYONE, do what you do....just dont' expect people to like it....
remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder....that is key
finally!! black people are in style!!!!! ha ha hah aha (it's joke people)
and F*CK being normal....i'm me ya dig?? and no one but da man can take dat from me....people need to stay in they lane.....
THE MORE YOU TELL YOUR WHITE DAUGHTER TO NOT GO WITH BLACK MEN, OR NOT TO HAVE A MIXED BABY, THE MORE SHE IS GOING TO DO IT.

ITS PROBABLY NOT A PHASE EITHER, I STARTED LIKING THEM A LOT AT ABOUT 10, NEVER LEFT THEM ALONE, AND NOW HAVE 2 MIXED CHILDREN.

&& FOR EVERY OTHER WHITE GUY ON HERE SAYING THINGS ABOUT WHITEGIRLS LIKING BLACK GUYS, YALL REALLY MUST BE JEALOUS THAT BLACK MEN CAN SPIT MORE GAME THAN YALL CAN, AND CAN GET THA WHITE WOMEN BEFORE YALL WHITE MEN CAN..

&& FOR EVERY WHITEGIRL WHO IS "CURIOUS" - A BLACK MAN IS NOT A SCIENCE EXPERIMENT, STICK WITH THE WHITE MEN.
its completly normal for white girls to like black boys- im one of them and they r not ugly at all. but i also kno a lot of girls who hate black boys and go crazy for guys like u. so be braver and go up to one of those girls and talk to her.
oh and Ryley (11545) i like all of the features u described. and their hair is perfectly fine, when shaved...in fact its pretty sexy. and u kno beign racist is pretty stupid, but u probably jelous
first of all u racist!! nd u kno it so don b tryna front!!
second y us white gurlz go fur sexi balck boiz is becuz them nasti azz white boiz aint doin nutin fo us !!
nd black boiz keep dem selvez lukin gud theez white boiz luk lik fukin poor ppl!!!
corn rowz shaved i don matta oo nd if dae got a gud line nd most of all its they personality white boiz aint got no personality they borin as hell!!

so if u wanna try nd front nd say u aint racist thn u go ahead nd do dhat but it aint gon get chu nowhere i hope dae steal off yo racist azz!
after reading all of these comments it has turned from a little highschool problem to a world problem i think every body should just take a second and realize that god but all of us on this earth to get along not to fight and argue with each other all the time back to the whole white and black deal i have 2 sisters one is 23 and one is 19 one of them hates blacks and one loves blacks growing up my dad was never racist he always told us to treat ppl the way we wanted to be treated i think if ppl in the world would do that it would be a better place back to the guy who started all of this man if she likes black boys let it be you cant force ppl to like/love you and there are plenty of fish in the sea man you just got to know where to look and if you dont like the whole black guy white girl thing than you should thank that dude she aint your type you aint her type all of this racist stuff has to stop from both the whites and blacks

my sisters also both have baby boys ones a little redneck and the other is a mixed baby and he is a gangster every one needs to get along life is 2 darn short 2 fight all the time
Hmm, i know it aint looks, everytime i look at a nigger i laugh at people who say evolution isnt real, they look like frickin monkeys for crying out loud. The reason it happens is cus : 1. its something different 2. they want to pretend their different 3. piss off daddy 4. niggers wang (supposedly large) and reason 5 is niggers dont seem to have any shame coming on to a fine ass white woman which is surprising considering theyre hideous and in the old days theyd be swingin from a tree if they talked to them. I dunno, maybe they dont get that nervous feeling most guys have, i remember when i worked this shit job at a convenience store this homeless grimy nigger i worked with hit on EVERY girl who walked in , including girls that beauty scared me! People say "oh white guys go for black girls" but compared to white girl/black guy combo its real low numbers. Thats cus men are more logical and tend to go for looks, lets face it women are stupid and its men's fault, you stop your women from learning for so many generations and they arent going to evolve geniuses.
I am white mother who was once a white teenager. I have never found black men attractive. I have a personal preference for thin faces and soft dry hair. I like blond men and blue eyes. But most importantly I like upstanding, intelligent, honest men. My choice in men would obviously not include most black men. My daughter would break my heart if she were to date black men. Not because I hate them. But because just reading the comments here is reason enough. Look at the language used by the blacks and the white girls who like blacks. This is not what I want for my daughter. Do I want her selling crack, smoking it, living in a trailer with 17 other stinking relatives? Would I want her to date a man who will probably go to prison? Would I want her to date a boy with no money, no job, no car, no liscence, no daddy, no hope. No way!
And anyone who thinks that it's unfair to judge these guys before i meet them would be correct. But once you go black, you don't go back. Not because these guys are better in bed or better ppl. Because white men don't want seconds after them. I plan to keep my child away from public schools, and the black public in general.
Racism goes both ways too. Is there a best white actor award? Is there a month to celebrate white acheivments... No, because blacks want to seperate themselves from whites. Watch out blacks or you will find that soon, there will be no black race. Just a bunch of yellow ppl who have no idea what their heritage is. That would be a shame.
Hello to all that commented here, Im 21 year old and i live in New York City,I happen to be a young black male and it pains me to see that there are still racist people in the world; tell me why we can't see each other past what on the out side i guess i was one of the lucky few that never had to deal with racium my parent from very young told me that we are all the some no one is better or less i am pride to say i have friend from all walks of life white black blue green, when as a people did we forget that we are all human! i read most of the comments on the page to learn that people don't every really change, is a world of hate what you really wont to bring your kid into, to judge other on how they look or were they come from, all people no matter what the race have bad and good on of you spoke of standing before God if you do stand before God do you think he would judge you on what race you are or you action? A person once said its not who i am or where i come from its what i do that defined me! Peace to all my brother and sister Black White Blue Green
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Its a real shame that you think the why you do but you are entitles, such hate run a river deep. im black and ive never been to jail or did crack or sold drug of any kind i don't even drink from what ive read from most of your comment these are the bases for your dislike of African Americans hmmm there must be something more right! and the month to celebrate is to show the courage and the pain it took to have the some freedom and the same right as other.
To those who think that blacks are subhuman, i am a black girl, and i take all AP classes. I have offers from Harvard and Yale, and no, I am not mixed. Some of the smartest people I know are African, and some of the dumbest people I know are blondes.Just kidding. Anyways, I kinda understand why some folks are racist. I get so annoyed at the number of black men on the streets who aren't taking care of their kids. Our acestors fought hard so we could have the same opportunities as whites, and today we have more opportunities than whites. It's a shame that a lot of us, especially the dudes, waste the opportunities just so we can act like idiots who kill each other.On the interracial subject,it doesn't really matter. I like smart guys with goals and nice eyes, black,white, orange, green, whatever.
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