need to know what he is thinking
well my story goes like this ,imet this guy last year he is related to my sister in law,anyway we met one night in the disco and we snogged and ever since then i have been texting him on or off,i mostly text when im drunk and always end up apologising for it,basically we finally got it together last weekend an d we slept together,the sex wasnt brilliant but we were both really nervous ,anyway i played it cool and left first ,he texted me the same day saying that he was frustrated that the sex wasnt good and that we should do it again some timehe said it was lovely sharing a bed with me,so the following night i went out and i rang him saying why dont we meet up he said no that it was too soon and that his daughter was staying he akso told me that his ex girlfrind was back in touch they have an on and off realationship,i texted him last nite to see if he wanted to text and he said he was with someone.this guy is 43 an he is separeted with two teenagers i am 27 .do you think if i lay off texting him will he start wanting me i am really mad after him what do you think he is playing at please help