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ok, i have to find out of this is normal. i am 14 yrs old, around 5 ft, i weigh 130 pounds. i have an ok face but obviously, i'm fat. i have stretchmarks all over me. i'm kind of hairy for an asian girl. i have cellulite. and although this is hard for me to share, i will; i was born two months premature and although i'm quite aware that i'm lucky for even being of average intelligence, i hate the fact that i was a premature baby. i've had a problem with my left achilles tendon since i was young. i've went through 2 surgeries, one left me with a very big ugly scar on my foot. i walk a little bit funny. i don't have a normal family, i live with my many siblings, all of them are older than me and they do try their best at taking care of me but considering i didn't grow up with a mother, i sometimes question myself if i'm emotionally healthy. i get depressed easily but nothing really serious; i'm far too afraid of pain to cut myself or seriously attempt suicide. i really don't know what to do with myself at this point in life, i go to a rather selective high school and i'm not doing so well; i'm basically afraid i won't get into a good college with a grade in the low 90's. i know my problems aren't that serious but they do matter to me. if there are any people out there who experience similar problems, please share ideas about how to overcome them.
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You are 5 foot tall and 130 pounds? That's really not morbidly obese or anything.. Don't beat yourself up so much! You seem to be exaggerating your flaws. Focus on the solution to what you see as a problem rather than the problem itself and in time you'll succeed. And if you don't succeed, then realize how senseless it is to feel so bad about something you couldn't change. What good comes from that? It's nonsense..
For now, try to enjoy your youth the best you can. Make friends, have fun, and make memories that you can look back on and be happy about.
You will probably succeed. You seem to care about your own success and so you will do what it takes to achieve that success you desire.
Best of luck. :)
first of all.... do you even remember when you were born??? why is it a big deal to be a premature child?? that does not change you at all or makes you different. i was almost one month premature, my sister was almost 2 months premature and she is doing just like anyone else...
stop having pitty on yourself and do something about it. want to lose weight? eat less and do some excersice, you cant run or so because of your achiles tendon, do some yoga. probably that will help a lot.
your problems are just the problems of your age. dont worry.
take care
Galeni.
I always ask myself this question when a worry crosses my mind. Is this something I have any control over? If not, then I relax, drop the thought which makes me feel better.
Life is full of ups and downs. I found most concerns have a way of working themselves out over time, so enjoy life and stop worrying. If you ever feel troubled, speak to an adult, preferably a counselor in your school. That is why they are there, to help. Good luck to you.
I know how hard it is to not eat when your hungry (on my meds I eat one meal every two days, but off my meds ill have 4 TV dinners for a snack, no joke)
Also, hell if your in honors, 90% is great! I havnt studdied during this (my freshman)( year and that has screwed me in math (first time EVER i got a math grade that was less than an A-)
Just find a nice boy who likes you, and by that I mean who talks to you on a regular basis and goes out of his way to talk to you. not a guy who might smile at you who is hot but never talks to you. The BIGGEST hint ever that a guy likes you is that they will either actively participate in a conversation with you, or listen to you talk and then remeber what you said.
Like the guys who like you back!
Just be a thrill seeker. take up stock car driving.
Poster, first of all, if you want to lose weight do it For YOU!
No, that's not quite right... FIRST thing is ignore the juvinile assholes who are calling you names and saying *stooopid* shit.
Second thing is to feel good about yourself!
Third is, if you are worried about grades, then study, study and study some more. Get a tutor if you have to, but if you Want to succeed I KNOW you Can!
Please be happy!
Tobra