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is it normal to be exstreamly unsocial
im 15 and i have all the add and ad/hd junk im not sure if it affects me but i am exstreamly unsocial.i went to a very old bankrupt school since pre k i went there because there was only 30 kids in the school. now the school shut down and i was forced to go to a public high school i was already known for exstreamly unsocial behavior but as i started to get older i became afriad of people to talk,or interact with them in anyway. i dont talk at all in school and people talk about me all the time. now i think im ready to be social since i started public skool but im still to afriad to say anthing to anyone like what do i say to sumone.im positive this aint normal jus gimmi sum help and none of u retards who make fun of every little typo.
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roger49 (3711)
2006-11-27 22:55:39
Are the fake posts finally over? this one seems somewhat credible. just go be social, talk to people, there's no need to be afraid.
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Mimir2 (3348)
2006-11-27 23:23:39
It is very normal and very much acquired by your environment, not genetic that is.
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jigsaw (2929)
2006-11-27 23:53:51
just talk to people. i know this might seem mean but fuck your fears. just talk to a person that dresses like you and seems quiet and just start talking to them. even if you have only one friend that is better than none. you NEED a friend.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2006-11-28 04:03:20
Try just making 1 friend to begin with and you should get to meet people through this friend and take it slowly youll be alright
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sisophous (3738)
2006-11-28 12:14:06
It isn't normal to be extremely anything. Moderation is the key to the vast majority of things in life. Socializing can be a great source of comfort but truly people are also extremely annoying and selfish creatures. Your outlook is understandable but I suggest you try to seek out those who have similar interests, perhaps join a group that participates in an activity you enjoy. Surely you have some interests, seek groups out that participate in these activities and you will have a common link making it easier to make friends. Good luck!!!!
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Honestly32 (4658)
2006-12-11 10:49:36
I would try to talk to people that seemed shy also.
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StinkyMonkey40 (5143)
2007-01-08 17:13:57
It's not normal
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suckle04 (3499)
2007-01-14 14:13:30
i understand ur a little nervous to talk to pple and be social, my advice is" screw the fears, who cares what they think of u- go out there, talk 2 pple, and if they dont like u 4 hu u r, screw them!! im sure you'll find someone hu appreciates u soon enuf and good things will come out of it.. but hiding will do u no good... the least u can do is try and im sure ull find it helpful in the end!!
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bouncexmysoul (3948)
2007-01-19 18:13:08
Up until 6th grade I went to Catholic and had only one firend. Up until then that was the only true friend I've ever had and we still are. Then I went to a public school. I hated the first day. I didn't make any friends until May. I was sick of sitting alone so I just said "whats up?" I'm not friends with them anymore but I did gain some new friends along the way. You can to. 1) If they feel sorry for you or 2) if you talk about something in common. But only do this if you're truly ready to socialize. And it's OK about the typos. We're all not perfect
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-30 19:53:48
Yea, people might say "just go to school and socialize" I from personal experience (long story short, I did some things in 6th grade that crushed my social life until 8th) Do activities with people (not those gay after school ones) But I mean if kids play football outside during break, JOIN IN! Don't be demanding of attention, start small, just try to blend in and just do things with others that you cant be rejected from (sports during break, etc) or ask some not-to-popular (not to unpopular either, so basically normal) kids if you can hang out with them. Atleast one of them should have friends outside their social group, and move up the ladder!
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roxieboo (4493)
2007-02-11 16:18:33
HI! :D im tyring to beat smithee... gimmie 3 months and ill win :D
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KidIdiot (6429)
2007-03-08 02:49:44
OH NIGGA PLEASE.
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Danny50010 (6400)
2007-03-10 23:28:18
Ok, you and me have to have a talk. I have/had add, ha/ad just like you and went through the same shit.
danieldewitt_75@hotmail.com this is my msn, give me a shout when you feel like becoming popular.


You know you went to a bankrupt school when you spell school "skool" lol sorry I couldn't help myself.

But yeah, contact me.
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xthreex (11080)
2007-10-11 21:52:29
why whould i not make fun of your typos?
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