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i need advice on this please.
my boyfriend and i have been together for three years.. ever since he went overseas to study i havent been able to grab a single minute of precious time for me from him.. he is constantly either playing games or out drinking with friends.. i have no idea whether he is seeing someone else or not but i assume he isn't.. now we're in a huge fight cos recently i gave up being the one who always calls him on the phone(he never calls me) i called him less and i even send him less mobile messages.. he's now thinking that i may be seeing someone else which i am not.. wat shall i do? can someone please help me?
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its your own fault

you called him very often which got normal for him
@: viado
Thats rubbish 'its you own fault' dont listen to them!! Lookin from the outside it seems you have been doing the running. Long distance relationships rarely work. You never said how old you both are, but its a fact if you get together young then guys at some point want to do the whole going out with freinds and stuff. Some relationships just drift apart its natural to outgrow each other. If you want to keep him, sit down and tell him how you feel, explain what you want of him, and let him do the same. If you cant give each other what you want, he aint for you.
Find another guy and don't give him anymore thought. It's true that many relationships just fade over time, that's actually a good thing and I'll tell you why. It means he isn't the right guy to be with, find a more compatible guy, it's all about picking and choosing. Good luck!!!!
If he thinks you're not important enough to him to be calling you, dump him. I'm dead serious. Why do you have to call him? Find a better guy that actually cares about you.
dump the bastard
long distance relationship never work, NEVER
Never.
Thats stupid as hell.

I don't know! you stopped calling him so much he thinks your cheating on him now? That's a sign of maybe he did something that he shouldn't have been doing.

Relationships take two. You cant always be the one calling. He needs to man the fuck up and pick up the phone

Maybe just talk to him and be like "this is how it is" and if he gets even more pissed from that then maybe you should just move on.

The whole deal of people comments above me saying long distance relationship never work pretty much a lie!

If the two people trying to make it work are really into each other and goes and sees each other every now and then they will work.
I suggest you explain how you feel to him. how old are you? has things got any better?
hate to tell u this hes got a new gf
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