im going downhill http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/ I've been in relationship where I felt like I lost my best friend and I really didn't have anybody to turn. All you can do really is just try and push by. It'll be so hard for the first maybe month or two but after that you start learning that you don't need somebody to make yourself feel better. Don't get me wrong. You'll have those days where you want to just pick up that phone or go over to that persons house just because you knew how much this person has helped you in the past before the relationship but you cant do that. To get over somebody you need to really just start thinking about stuff that doesn't have anything at all to do with relationships You cant shut everybody else out because that isnt fair to your next boyfriend (yes their will be a next) not everybody should be untreated. Just keep pushing girl. You'll soon feel better. Pay no need to those above me that were just joking around about how much pain you are in because they really don't know what it feels like. http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-207301 2007-12-05 11:43:48 oompa loompa http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-129741 2007-07-01 02:59:50 I don't understand why some people have to be ignorant when some one else is in pain. If people helped each other out then I think that maybe we would all have a better life. I hope this person was able to seek out some help, life doesn't have to end with 1 break up. Although she/he feels like the world is ending it isn't and there will be other misfortunes. Things go up things go down. It's natural1 http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-116215 2007-06-03 11:22:52 stick a sword up your ass http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-93809 2007-04-22 11:50:45 one word: zoloft its a miracle worker http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-89136 2007-04-15 12:07:30 Every one of us nearly has been through this type of thing, you are not alone. Its all the purpose of growing up and learning about life. Your world feels as though it as ended right now but you definitly will get through this. You will go through the depression and hurt to come out the other side and see the light again. One door has closed in your life but many other doors are waiting to be opened up. New and exciting opportunities await you. You will see this soon and you will be a much stronger and happier person for it.. http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-87875 2007-04-13 14:33:21 im sorry... you sound very depressed. i know this might sound crazy, but meds will help http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-87867 2007-04-13 14:26:53 I agree with what is above me. I can't say anything else to it. http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-45542 2006-12-04 22:25:27 You are young. This won't be the last time you get hurt. Life is full of things that make you hurt, yet life goes on. There will be other relationships, and they will bring you joy. The fact is, you cannot feel the joy without the hurt. Two sides of the same coin, right' http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-45448 2006-12-04 12:18:19 You will get over this and i dont wanna start preaching but the reason humans as a whole struggle with this kinda thing is cause we are taught at an early age to bottle emotions (stop crying!!, Whats wrong with you!! Etc,.etc) Rid yourself of these emotions and in the future dont compare things to past experience, it is the road to unhappiness. judge everything as if it was a new experience and you will find your soulmate, without thinking will he be like all the others' Good luck! http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-45434 2006-12-04 09:49:49 you pathetic bitch. http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-45385 2006-12-04 00:13:33 You'll get over it. Break ups are part of life. Move on, it might be painful, but it'll be even more painful if you think about it. Try talking to him and try to stay friends with him. http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-45362 2006-12-03 20:19:23 Welcome to the lousy part of life. What you're going through every single person will experience, often multiple times. I don't know your age but I'm guessing you are in school. Counselors don't deal with just academics, but personal/social areas too. Ask them if there is a support group or anyone you can talk to because you are feeling miserable about the loss of a friend. The pain will go away, very gradually, but it will go away. Don't even consider running away or anything else that is destructive, be patient and speak to a counselor as soon as you can. There are always people to talk to no matter what the issue. People looking in from the outside are the one's who can offer help. http://isitnormal.com/story/5679/#comment-45359 2006-12-03 19:04:26