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ok well i always new i was sexually attracted to women well at least in the pornos. but since last school year ive attracted physically to girls in my school. i know i would never wanna have a relationship with one but i want to hook up with a girl. does this makes me bi? and since i dont want ne1 to know i plan to wait til college. any advice?
im 16 by the way
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-06 18:55:14
That's a personal choice, not really for others to make for you. Some feel more comfortable letting others know their preference at an early age while others may never do so in their lifetime. Do what make you feel best after considering all the consequences which you seem to have done. And, you aren't bi-sexual because you have had attractions to both sexes. A bi-sexual person engages in heterosexual sex and homosexual sex. One instance doesn't mean you have that label, rather it is a lifestyle you lead or have led. I'd say you are just curious, you may stick to just guys or just girls so no way of telling just yet what label you will have. Hope this helps.
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jigsaw (2929)
2006-12-06 20:26:32
I dont see the problem here.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2006-12-06 21:05:26
Just get really drunk with one of your friends and have bit of clitty fun and see if you like it play a bit of stinkfinger as well
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Honestly32 (4658)
2006-12-08 10:04:17
Give yourself some time. Call a teen hotline. Maby you don't have a mom. or maby your ignored by her and your attracted to girls. Have you been hurt by boys or men? Be sure of what you want and why before you act. If at all possible think before you act. God Bless. Peace Out.
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Honestly32 (4658)
2006-12-08 10:08:54
P.S. What if people did know? Can you live with it ? Were you raised up in church? How will your family take it? Do you care? Just worried about you. Quesions to think of.
God Bless Peace Out
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-29 19:27:42
Just say to yourself "Im bi" and drop the entire subject. That way you dont have to be torn up on the inside. Trust me, being bi is normal, fine, ok, etc.
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BrokenInside (5867)
2007-02-14 13:25:05
Your confused. Your just a little girl//You don't knw what you want! sorri to be harsh, But the truth hurts!
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leomichael (6366)
2007-03-05 10:48:17
Hunny this is normal. Dont worry - be yourself and things happen naturally.
You will be fine
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playgirls3xy (6453)
2007-03-09 16:53:09
luk bbz im bi-sexual.i am feeling exactly the same way u are! as far as i know theres nothing wrong with it i have quite a few bi m8s but they actually dont know that i am yet. ill have 2 tell them when i get the chance and it feels right. but luk hunni theres nothing with it.its perfectly normal, i just wouldnt tell people i didnt trust incase i got slagged by it. but it doesnt put me off.
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ItsVeryNormal (6513)
2007-03-11 23:41:10
have sex with a girl..... and me. then see what you think.
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