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I think I am in love with a co-worker Part III
Well, where to begin. As of a few days I was sure this girl I was working with had dumped her boyfriend but after chatting with her online I found out they were kind of undecided to whether they were going to get back together. I planned on asking her out at work last night but never got the opportunity so after she had signed off last night I sent her an email. One that sounded really stupid. Before she got off I told her I was sending her this email so she was expecting it. In it I told her I had feelings for her and I know she is confused about things and if she ever wants to talk I'm there for her. I basically poured my heart out and am embarrased. I said some other retrospectively goofy things that probably made her think I am a total idiot. I told her in the email I wanted her to tell me what she wanted. I said if she wanted to pretend I never said any of the things I said that was fine. So when she IM'd me today she said she had never received the email(obviously rejecting me nicely). I am just concerned that things will be weird between us now, which I don't want. Has this sort of thing happened to any girls out there? What does she want me to do. What can I do or say to her to fix things because for some reason I feel like a real jackass.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-08 20:00:56
Yes, I did it too, so join the club. I had some wine before doing it, as you know alcohol can make us do crazy things. Even though you think it bad sending the email without realizing what you wrote, it is often perceived by us as being far worse than it really is. In my case, I did it a couple of times and it all blew over and amounted to nothing. Lesson I learned is never to send out any email or instant message while drinking. I suggest you just back off and let it rest. I'm sure some of what you wrote is ok and to your benefit, you just perhaps over did it. And, I look forward to Part IV, as long as it is real, no fake posts please.
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Rory2424 (4424)
2006-12-08 20:38:32
Yeah, I wish I was making this up. Hopefully part IV will end with things going back to us just being friends and her not thinking I'm stupid for saying all those things. So should I try to say anything else about it. After she gets off work she usually gets online and chats with me. Should I mention anything about it then and just try to get everything out in the open. I don't plan on sharing any more of my feelings but just want to tell her something. I don't want there to be a strange silence tomorrow when we work together.
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Rory2424 (4424)
2006-12-09 01:39:40
holy shit. i am confused as hell. i just got done chatting with the girl i sent the email too. She was vehement that she never received it. Through talking with her i honestly think she somehow did not receive the email. I checked and the email address is the hers. Is it that possible that i sent an email to her email address and she really didn't get it? Letters get lost through the postal service, i assume the same can happen with emails. Call me crazy but I actually believe her. Could this have been some act of God that saved me from a really embarrassing situation or is she still just rejecting me nicely? Keep in mind, she initiated the conversation by telling me she never received the email and told me to re-email it to her because she wanted to know what was in it.
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roger49 (3711)
2006-12-09 05:10:02
It will only be weird if you make it weird, and if she wants you to resend it, then it's up to you. but it sounds like she really didn't get it to me. If you want this girl, you're going to have to deal with making yourself look stupid. If she rejects you, leave her alone for a couple of weeks, and there's a good chance you can still be friends.
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-07 01:20:29
Yea, its awkward after any rejection, even nice ones....
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Guest1111111 (11505)
2007-11-02 23:22:53
h8 silence tho it hurts inside Xo
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jusacouplaquarters (13087)
2008-01-25 16:50:20
This is the sweetest story...I think it's real cute how you're acting and that you care about her that much. Maybe she really didn't get the email, and that has both pros and cons...you were putting it all on the line and if she had rejected you, it would've hurt. On the other hand, she could've taken it the opposite way and broke up with her boyfriend to be with you. Seriously though, if she's going to stay with her cheating boyfriend, you should seriously consider if you would want to be with someone with so little self respect. Ha! Anyway, sometimes we have to put it all on the line to get what we want or to move on from something. If you are going to stay in this medium range with her for much longer, I think your head might explode from frustration...
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