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Am i goin mad or is this normal.
Ok here goes, this is my first time writen.

Well im a 17 yr old boy. I have a Girl Friend that i have been with for a year and a half and everytime i leave her in a room with another guy in it i think there hitting on each other or worse, is this normal or am i goin crazy....

Thx plz comment.
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It is insecurity and quite common, particularly among the young and those who feel vulnerable and lacking control of situations and self confidence. You can think that but don't react and let her know your concern as she will eventually grow tired of it and feel smothered by you. Many people assume the worst and overreact when their girlfriends/boyfreinds interact with others. Learn to realize when you are uncomfortable, and force yourself to back off and seal your lips, not act impulsively. Too much togetherness, too much closeness is actually a bad thing. You need to trust and relax if you are to sustain a strong relationship. If she betrays your trust then she was never the right one to begin with, and you will be better off for it in the long run.
Trust is the key word mate..
Thx :)
well its normal to feel that way if your girls a tramp and flirts w/ all the guys. just walk in on them randomly and see whats up. good luck w/ that.
you just have to trust your girlfriend. thats all you can really do, without trust relationships can get really out of control.
Thats really normal, loads of guys especially young guys are like that. Just try and control it and try not to be too clingy to her. And the most important thing, dont stress ove rit, or think your going crazy, because your not.
She's a slut, dump her.
It's normal but you really need to calm down.
My boyfriend can be the same way and it's ridiculous.
If you've been together that long you should have trust.
If you're uglier and weaker than the guys you leave her in a room with then you have everything to worry about mate...
I do the same thing but its only with guys that i dont know or this one kid .....another story. If i know the guy shes with then im usally fine with it and the other kid hes just so clingy to her its so friging retarded (my class shes hes only friend ) and i know she feels bad for him and she thinks their just friends but him hugging her to say sorry over the littlest of things bugs me....Her hugging him is alright cause she usally does a side hug not a bear hug and when he hugs her he pulls her and i can tell she pushes back but when we talk about this she dosent relize this
could some one be so kind on to help me with that i dont feel like making a new story
It's natural to be protective.
My boyfriend randomly doesn't like my guy friends.
Just tonight we had this conversation and I asked him why he didn't like this guy friend of mine and he's just like, I didn't the first time I met him, I either like people or i don't...blah blah blah.
& when a guy is hugging on your girl it's natural for you to feel jealous but if you trust her you have nothing to worry about.
You should probably talk to her about it.
@: Breezy
I trust her thats not the problem
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I don trust they guy hell i dont trust guys in general i dont even trust my self sometimes

And i would be alright with it if she realized that hes being "too" friendly.

Ive asked my best friend how he would like me hugging his girl "he said about the effect of he wouldnt like it but cause its me and we are friends he would be a lil more alright with it more so seeing that i have a girl friend my self" but because this kid dosent have a gf and is constintely talking to her even when she trys to get away ....

Ive talk to her about how its annoying when she talks to him when we're both around and not me and she responed with that i talk to my friend more then her when there both around .....But i try to include them both seeing us three are friends...and but i wouldnt have a problem if it was with a friend with that was a girl
My wife hates all other men, so if I left her in a room with another man, she'd castrate me. That's due to bad experiences on her part. So, I don't really worry too much about it. Maybe try listening in, if something's going on, then you'll know. Or get a baby monitor, lol. If you're that paranoid, try talking to her about it and let her know that it bothers you, maybe she'll stop staying in the room with them? Or she might just dump ya. So, I'm sure you'll figure it out.
u need to trust her not all girls are slags u no if u dont trust her then dump her simple as
i agree, also what would u think if someone would sell their own juice? like women selling it instead of regular lube?
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