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Virgin curious but aprehensive

I am a 22 yr old virgin. Growing up I was fat and had low esteem I never talked in class. I am still fat but i am comfortable and happy.I still carry the baggage of a sheltered youth and take time getting to know new people. With women my self esteem is further hindered by my small penis a barrier which has stopped me from dating out of fear. About two years ago a male crept into my masterbatory fantasy. I have questioned my sexuality since that day. I fantasize about men and gay sex i have sought out partners but can never seem to go through with it. Is this because I am a virgin or because or because theres a chance I might not be. I feel like if i go down that path there is no going back later, wife, family etc...
Do you think it's normal?
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-11 15:16:01
It sounds like you are going through an identity crises and have low self esteem. If you fantasize about other men, it sounds like that is what you truly wish for, a gay relationship. You are right, if you go down that path it will affect the other things in life that you may desire, such as a wife and family. It isn't cheap to get any medical procedure done, but you may want to explore penile enlargement surgery. I don't know anything about it, but plastic surgery is common today and you may be able to get the desired results that will help you gain confidence. First, why not look into the enlargement procedure, find out who does it, cost, speak to several doctors and get feedback from those who have had it done. As for dating, only you can choose, no one else can do that for you. I suggest not date women if you fantasize with men. It would be grossly unfair to a women to deceive her when you have mixed feelings. good luck!!!
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AdviceGiverLad (4680)
2006-12-11 22:14:10
LOSER!!
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babyangel2580 (1623)
2006-12-11 23:20:58
I'd try to help.. but I don't think I have had enough expirence to understand what you're going through..

Follow your heart..

Good Luck!

Angel
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cabinet70 (4440)
2006-12-12 05:26:55
Your just desperate because you havent had nsex just try and find a woman and youll be right
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Fantainfinite (4355)
2006-12-13 07:25:19
Try women if you really don't like sex with women then maybe you like guys more. It doesn't matter, there are tonnes of gay people.
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Godson (3879)
2006-12-13 07:33:33
well said CabMan.
i agree.
Good Luck w/ that.
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Nothingmatters (4822)
2006-12-17 20:21:26
Go to the Y and do some pushups it it has you that worried!!!
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